Quote from: Ilan Reshon on September 15, 2010, 02:50:38 PM
Just chiming in that it's quite natural to have one breast be bigger than the other. I've been told that if the difference is greater than one cup size, you're supposed to get bras to fit the bigger one and add padding on the smaller side. Uhhh, I'm somewhat lopsided, but I haven't tried it myself. Good luck, Stephanie!
Yeah. And that's exactly how it goes. Many women do this, pad the one side of the bra which has a smaller size than the other one. And feel ashamed of having asymmetrical breasts, not knowing how many other women use that trick as well. (Or feeling so self-conscious that they forget they're not the only ones there.) I heard a couple of conversations about it in my life.
You can find appropriate padding in the appropriate stores. (I don't remember where, I never padded - for christ's sake!). Female underwear stores or the departments where you buy sewing stuff etc., I think, that's where I saw that stuff.
The shame about breast asymmetry is silly, at least when it is not restricted to clothes looking weird on you. Cause breasts are not made to look at and admire for their symmetry or size, they are made to grab them, suck them, knead them etc. and feel happy and ecstatic about it. And there's no need of symmetry there. And many, many women have asymmetrical breast. Who cares? People usually only get to see them once they're hot. And in these moments, they don't care about this, they just want to have fun then. Or you'll have this situation with other women in the locker room, and 90% of the women are very self-conscious about their looks, and the other 10% tend to be such arrogant jerks that this alone makes them unattractive. And I suppose nobody will ever make fun of you there if you end up having asymmetrical breasts.
Okay, I'm over-generalizing here, but let me say that many women are so much into their looks and so over-critical about it that it really destroys many of them. Which is sad. So many great and sensual personalities (who I'd like to mount right away) torturing themselves for nothing and thinking no one would ever be attracted to them...
Hey, women come in all shapes and styles. There is not just one way to be beautiful (though I personally prefer the small chubby ones). Don't buy into the media bull->-bleeped-<-, okay, they influence males as well especially if they want to boast in front of their friends, but - hey, they represent only one style and that's not to everybody's taste.
Now I know, many guys are very visual when it comes to sexual attraction. But many of them also report as well - certain body types seem more attractive to them on a visual level, others seem more attractive on a tactical level - holding in your arms, cuddling, grabbing etc. So quite a lot of guys are kind of torn in-between there, wanting a Claudia Schiffer to look at and a chubby girl to cuddle. Plus they remember former sexual encounters with you, or with the girls they've been dating before, and this also influences them and whether they think you're attractive or not. Now don't ask me about girls, I don't understand them well.
Most difficult thing when dating females: convince them that you find them attractive, and that you have a different taste than the silly unattractive tall and bony norm represented in the media (sorry I'm really into small chubby girls so I'm biased here), and that their body is perfect as it is and that you don't feel sexually attracted to them in spite of their looks, but because of them, plus because of their personality. It's really difficult to get that message through, dang! They may even call you a liar though you just look at them and immediately think: "I want to screw her right now - and marry her right after that". And they tend to get so self-conscious on stuff like "one breast is bigger than the other". I mean, who cares about the size as long as the person's hot and once you're having sex anyway and they're both fun to play with?
