I have been in a relationship with a woman for the past 5 years.  We rarely had sex and for one reason or another, I did not dilate often.

The relationship is over and I want to have sex again sometime sooner than later. 

Anyone have any suggestions on how to hopefully regain some of the (lack of better word) flexibility of my neovagina?

My doctor back when I got the surgery suggested that I use an estrogen cream to make the skin softer.  Has anyone heard of that before?  Would that help now?

Tired of being untouched.