I think I posted on this thread a while ago when I was using "Kim", because it's close to my given name (Tim), but I've since decided that doesn't suit me for various reasons, so I've settled on Colleen. First, because I'm of Irish extraction, so I wanted an Irish name, and second, because it's also used as a word meaning "Girl", which I am. On here, I use the last name "Ireland", but I'm actually hoping to keep my real last name (begins with McT), because, well, because it's mine. And I have children also, and it would be a way of honoring them. But I'm not out to them yet, and they may not wish to be "honored" in that way, and my parents may decide they'd rather not know me anymore, so I'm prepared to use Ireland as my (new) last name if I need to...