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Decision? What decision?

Started by Natasha, September 25, 2010, 01:16:47 PM

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Natasha

Decision? What decision?

http://americantransman.com/2010/09/20/decision-what-decision/
9/20/10

As I come out to more and more people, one comment I have heard a number of times now has to do with my decision.

This word, when applied to anything I might have to talk about when coming out, is always tricky for me.

"What, you mean the decision to be trans?  That's not a decision.  That's who I am."

"Do you mean the decision to live as myself?  That's not a decision. That's a necessity."
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