talk about it with your man very often

And here I always thought the best part about being gay was you never had to have conversations like this.

Lol Tekla, I dunno about other gay couples, but my guy and I talk about this a lot. He's really one of the only people I actually open up with. Maybe it's different for other gay couples? lol

Perhaps.  Most of the ones I know are spared that constant 'relationship talk' and tend to focus on other things.

We do the...other things...plenty.   

If I like a girl and she hangs out with girls, I am not jealous at all but if she talks to guys and hangs out with them then I will be enraged because I know I can't compete with them and with girls I just don't think the girl I like would try to get with them.

I would talk to him about how you feel. It may help. I understand your jealousy I get that way myself whenever my bf mentions his ex whom he is still obessed over. But that also provokes other feelings with me heh. But since he doesn't do that often I haven't found reason to sit him down and have a chat about it. I hope this helps.

im looking for an answer to get over jealousy too, unfortunately, so i cant really help. =(

thanks for every ones help, but I actually broke up with him about a week ago.. so, problem solved? lol

sorry to hear that elijah. or maybe, congratz? i dunno lol

i'm fine, I was sad the first day, but I'm ok now.  We were together 7 months, the weird thing is, i dont feel that bad.. I dont think I am good at connecting with people romantically.

Quote from: Yakshini on July 28, 2010, 09:03:48 PM
he changes his behavior around attractive girls and will refuse affection and will give me minimal attention in their company.

THAT is mega not cool. I get mad when my friends do that. How do you stand it?