So - perhaps my most unpleasant retail experience happens at a local Fred's store. there is at least one, and possibly two, employees there who are not very discreet in their disrespect. My wife actually notices it more often than i do (huge irony in the fact that she gets offended because of people acting precisely as she would act if the roles were reversed but nevermind that now)
Anyway, last week we were checking out and one of these women took time out from what she was doing to walk over to a couple of male employees - drivers i think - and whisper something to them - something which immediately provoked them to turn and stare at me for several minutes.
I finally decided that there really ought to be some consequence for this sort of thing, but I also worry since I'm notorious enough in this town that if they reprimand her directly she will know it came from me and that isn't likely to be productive.
So, they have these big posters up that say "tell us how we are doing!" so i fired off the following e-mail:
QuoteComments: Please understand this comment is anonymous, for reasons which will become clear. I am a regular customer in the R----- location, and I am also a transgender individual. On several occasions I've noted a couple of your older employees there (one may no longer be working there) being obviously "catty" about my appearance among themselves and to other employees. by this I mean, essentially "look at that" sort of conversations which were clearly about me. I am well known in town and if the employee is reprimanded directly because of this she will know who made the complaint and I DON'T want that to be the case. But I did want you to know that you have some employees that have a hard time leaving their judgmental attitude at the door when they come to work. Other customers may not be as patient as I am.
Not really expecting much. to my plesent surprise i got this reply:
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Good morning! Thank you very much for emailing us with your concerns. Please accept my apology for the unacceptable service with which you were provided recently while shopping in your local R-----, MS Fred's store. I assure you that it is always our intention to provide a pleasant, friendly experience to all our valued customers, and it is very apparent that we have failed to do so in this instance. As such, I have contacted our District Manager over that area, asking him to investigate this matter expediently and to contact you via email as soon as possible. In the interim, however, I ask that you, as well as your family, allow Fred's another chance to provide you with the level of service you deserve.
Thank you again for taking the time to contact us, and have a great day!
Sincerely,
On the other hand, that was Monday and the District Manager hasn't followed up. Still, fella seems sincere so i look forward to going into more detail with the appropriate person.
to be honest with you, I don't feel a big sense of satisfaction here - I really am not the sort of person who wants to muck around with someone else's livelihood. I'm hoping that they simply set some policies and possibly does some training - I'm really not looking for her to get a personal butt-chewing.
at least, not this time.