I have a question.

What do you guys aim for, physically in becoming a guy? What's the ideal guy look?
And how would you feel like if you were around 5'7 in height?

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And if you like girls, what kind of girls in general in personality? Is a girl being feminine a huge thing? And what makes you turned on immediately?

Quote from: Megan on October 07, 2010, 02:48:20 AM
I have a question.

What do you guys aim for, physically in becoming a guy? What's the ideal guy look?
And how would you feel like if you were around 5'7 in height?

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And if you like girls, what kind of girls in general in personality? Is a girl being feminine a huge thing? And what makes you turned on immediately?

Hey, that was 6 questions!

1. I want to become a guy, but don't want to become fat as I'm small and I don't like it when small guys are fat.
2. There's no ideal guy look. I had lots of different types I have been attracted to in my life.
3. I'd feel much taller. Would like it.
4. Natural, kind, self-confident
5. I'm not attracted to girls who are very feminine.
6. If I write it all up, the internet will be full.

1.) Well for the IDEAL picture of me, I'd love to be taller, of course have working male parts, flat chested, overall I always thought I'd be a muscular, captain of the football team, type guy what went wrong? Anywho, for now, I'm focusing on getting hormones to get a bit closer to some of the above stuff and eventually top surgery to fulfill the flat-chest category. Nothing about bottom surgery thus far is that appealing to me because it hasn't been perfected in the sense that it wouldn't be ideal to me (at least average size, erections, able to pee through) and as for balls I'm waiting for the technology that turns the ovaries into close-testicles might not be in my life time. As for the height thing, I'm already 5'6", but again I'd love to be taller (beggers can't be choosers though I suppose it doesn't fuss me too badly).

2.) For girls, I'm not that picky (again beggers can't be choosers ). I'd at least like her to be open-minded and aware of the outside world (I've met girls who didn't know who Al Gore was ). Someone not one-dimensional and can grow with me basically (that was so cheesy). I don't like overly feminine girls I like the low-maintenance ones that don't make you buy them everything under the sun and look good without tons of make up (I actually tend to look at girls without make up or hardly any make up first). What makes me turned on immediately....uhh I might have to go with the token-guy response here....tits and ass someone that's real comfortable in the sex-department too. But that's the physical aspect. What turns me on on a higher level would have to be....a girl that surprises me I suppose. I bet I look like a total dick right now wouldn't be the first time, but late night responses have a tendency to put forth bluntly put (and oddly worded) honesty. Hope that didn't come out too jumbled....I'm far too tired to edit it.

I want to be a "pretty boy" - undoubtedly male, but fem looking. Skinny and androgynous. I like to think being trans gives me a good chance of achieving this ideal look. 5'7 would be a lot taller than I am now, I quite like my height, wouldn't object to being taller though. Just not shorter for the love of god, I'd be a hobbit

I'm not too in to girls but the ones I am attracted to tend to be short and kinda boyish. I don't like really masculine women who can drink me under the table and beat me in an arm wrestle but girlishness annoys me somewhat, if she's gonna be concerned with getting mud on her shoes or breaking a nail then we aint gonna get along

Hmm, ideal look...I want to be a fit guy, not too muscular but not scrawny, I'm a soccer player. And I'm pretty into a scruffy face, not a full beard but scruff. And yea definitely taller, a lot taller, like 6' range lol that's probably my biggest ideal which will never happen.

As far as girls, I like cute girls. Ones who care enough about their appearance but don't overly stress it. And of course girls who are into sports, mainly soccer and someone I can have an intelligent conversation with as well as down to earth conversations. That's pretty much it

And...a lot turns me on lol I just play it cool tho

Ideal look for me would be muscular but not huge...more of toned body. And like James said I'd like a scruffy face but definitely not a full beard. And 5'7" would be quality as I'm only 5'3" now, but having said that I don't mind being short and I'd hate to be any taller than 5'8".

As for girls, I'm attracted to maturity and I often like girls that are older than me. Also brown eyes and brown hair is hot. And redheads.

Im pretty much the same, I want a toned body but I don't want to be massive, the perfect height for me would be about 5'6. I'm very comfortable being short, I'm 5'3 at the moment but a bit taller wouldn't hurt.

I like girls who are cute, thats the biggest thing for me. I like it when they are shy too and around my height. To be honest my friend will take the p*** out of me for saying this but what gets me is if they have a really cute grin, like proper cheesy. I like girls I can take care of, I'm not interested in the sexy look i'd rather have a girl with a nice personality.

Quote from: Megan on October 07, 2010, 02:48:20 AM
I have a question.

What do you guys aim for, physically in becoming a guy? What's the ideal guy look?
And how would you feel like if you were around 5'7 in height?

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And if you like girls, what kind of girls in general in personality? Is a girl being feminine a huge thing? And what makes you turned on immediately?

Marlon Brando, James Dean, etc. The old school archetype of mandom.

I'm 5' 9", close enough. How should I feel?

My attraction to women is pretty limited, after having only begun to notice them on T. It varies wildly, there's no predicting which girl I'll suddenly want to bone or why. Sometimes it's the way a girl laughs, sometimes how her clothes fit, her tits, what she says, what coffee she drinks, etc. I think every girl everywhere in the world has a good chance of having more than a few guys fall hard for her for no apparent reason, just for being the way she is.

What do you guys aim for, physically in becoming a guy?
I, personally, would like to look like a slightly androgynous male.

What's the ideal guy look?
There's really no such thing in and of itself, just personal preference.

And how would you feel like if you were around 5'7 in height?
I'd be quite happy with that.
I'm 6'2 as is, and it feels a little... too tall.. sometimes.
'Specially when I clip low hanging signs in stores..

And if you like girls, what kind of girls in general in personality?
Intelligent, rational, capable of holding complex conversations, not to stuck in some preconceived notion of what is "correct" behaviour for men and women and so on and so forth..

Is a girl being feminine a huge thing?
No.
Though certain accents of femininity are highly enticing, I'm more concerned with personality, specifically intelligence, than any such thing.

And what makes you turned on immediately?
Nothing really...

I'd love to be kind of like Peter Murphy, the sort of tall, slender, fey guy. Sort of a goth, I suppose. I want to be tall, 5,4" is puny. 5,9"-ish would be a cool height. My perfect height.

I don't know what's the ideal guy look. For me, I suppose it is: flat chest, no curves, slightly skinnier (in that androgynous, fey Peter Murphy kinda way). Sideburns, perhaps; those look so cool.

I'd like it; it's a bit short for a guy, but who cares? I mean, I'm very short already, so anything will help.

Girls in terms of personality... Slightly nerdy, same interests as me, doesn't mind a coffee-addicted loonie such as myself, is a bit of a tomboy, is into sex, isn't religious.

A girl being feminine isn't a huge thing. I am kind of fascinated by feminine girls; it's this entire world I have no understanding of at all. Super-girly girls are annoying, they need to be somehwat down to earth.

Turned on immediately? Good tits, good arse, a sexy smile, the way she laughs, the way her hair looks, a glimpse of a bra strap... Anything, really. It depends on the girl.

I would like to look kindly andro (forgive me I can never remember how to spell it), but maybe a little toned. The ideal guy look, I don't think there is one. I'm 5" now, so 5" 7 would be an improvement to me. As for girls, I like intelligent girls, someone who is comfortable in their skin, down to earth, not afraid to speak their mind,sweetness never hurts anyone. Is femininity a big deal, not really. What turns me on, I like it when a girl wears make up not not to much,corsets on girls are very sexy,but over all I think girls are sexy when they are who they are on the inside. But still I know what I like and I'd rather not mention every little thing about that on here, as it would be too much to list.

Hmm...I aim for as close to my ideal look as I can manage, I suppose. That ideal would be definitively male.

I want a fit, toned body that's neither scrawny and lanky nor bulky or...too muscled I suppose. I want the mesomorph male body type, again without necessarily being bulky. I want hair in the right places: good scruff when I want it (i.e. I don't shave), a happy trail, hair on the arms and hands and legs and feet (well, more hair), hair on the chest even so long as I don't have a hairy back. I want a more defined face and jaw. Bigger hands and feet wouldn't hurt either. And, of course, the appropriate equipment -- preferably a bit larger than average, but hey, we're going with ideal, right?

I'm already around 5'7" -- I'm between 5'5"-5'6". I'm fine with my height as is, but that's not to say I wouldn't complain about a couple more inches...in height, that is. I want more than just a couple elsewhere...

Personality-wise I like a confident girl, one I'm still comfortable talking to and who I feel is hearing me and truly listening, one that pushes me a bit but doesn't nag. I like a girl that will call me on things, challenge me a bit (God is that hot), hold conversations from the silly to the serious. I like a girl that's straight with me, one that doesn't feel the need to try and change me or anything, one that can be naughty and a bit of a tease even (both in a naughty sense and otherwise). I like a girl with a sense of humor that can take a joke and sarcasm and can dish it too, but who doesn't take things too far. I like a girl who's intelligent too. Sweetness doesn't hurt at all. I like a girl I can have fun with in all settings, and can look damn fine if appropriate when we go out -- better yet if she can look damn fine regardless of what she's wearing. Though I like to be able to take the reigns and whatnot, a girl who doesn't have issue with surprising me by doing so sometimes is nice, so long as I'm not made to feel I'm just along for the ride and have no real control. So, a girl who can take control (especially in bed -- or wherever we happen to be) but who isn't about control, who still involves me. Okay, I will admit, it's more of a turn on and more in my interest to be more in control, to take care of things more, or at the least share that equally, but not at all so much if she's running the show more.

Can't forget open-minded as well (reason I edited this). Not only due to the whole trans-thing, but also...well, I'm into a lot of things, shall we say. I'm a hugely open-minded person and have no issue seeing both sides in matters even. Someone who is narrow-minded wouldn't work well in just about all aspects of my life.

A feminine girl isn't necessarily a huge thing. Actually, I like a girl who likes to get dirty at times (or at least doesn't mind), and can hold her own with "the boys" -- but I like her to have a femininity to her too. I think that kind of combination is insanely hot. Naturally, that lends to high-maintenance not being my thing -- I'd disappoint there as I'm not inclined to entertain and indulge that.

As to what turns me on immediately...haha, well, confidence is definitely one of those things. I've learned that suggestion immediately distracts me and catches my attention regardless of what I'm doing: whether the suggestion is verbal or physical or both, and whether subtle or vulgar and obscene. A cute, kind of flirty girl is a turn-on for sure. I'm sure there's more...but those are the most immediate turn-ons.

My ideal look is to be a little more muscular and toned than i am now. I weigh about 135-140 and i would like to weigh more around 150-155 (in muscle). I'm 5'8" and I'm happy with my height. If i could grow that would be awesome because I would like to be around 5'10" but like i said I really dont have a problem with being 5'8." I want to be seen as confident! That's the most important thing to me.

I don't have a specific type of girl that I go for. I like to laugh and have fun. I like girls who i can joke around with and act like a big kid with sometimes but who can also be serious. Someone who makes me want to be a better person. I like girls who is happy with wearing sweats and being lazy with me one day and getting dressed up and going out the next. I do like "girly" girls. and I like girls who are shorter than me. The most important thing is the connection i have with a girl, I dont want her to feel like she's just a friend.

Quote from: Megan on October 07, 2010, 02:48:20 AM
I have a question.

What do you guys aim for, physically in becoming a guy? What's the ideal guy look?
And how would you feel like if you were around 5'7 in height?

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And if you like girls, what kind of girls in general in personality? Is a girl being feminine a huge thing? And what makes you turned on immediately?

1) I like the on the thinner some what twinky but with muscle look.  Basically on the thin side, but cut.
2) I like both casual and "trendy gay".
3) I'm already around 5'10", so I'd feel like I shrunk lol.
4) Well I'm into guys.  But for a guy I like a guy who is nice and funny. He NEEDS to have a sense of humor.
5) N/A lol.
6) A guy who has a hot face, hot body, and nice smile turns me on instantly.  Also I LOVE a guy who has some tan.  Not orange, just golden. 

Quote from: Megan on October 07, 2010, 02:48:20 AM
What do you guys aim for, physically in becoming a guy? What's the ideal guy look?
And how would you feel like if you were around 5'7 in height?

Realistically: a flat chest, strong muscular frame, hair in the right places (especially some on chest and face), more defined jaw 'cause mine is very soft and round, and bigger hands/feet. To throw in some idealism, I'd want working bio male parts. Funny you should mention ideal look because I found a photo that sums up my ideal body here: To Serve and Destroy by Vishstudio To describe it, I suppose bulky/heavy musclehead will do?

I would probably have more confidence if I were taller, and 5'7" would be a happy place for me. I'm around 5'1" so it'd be a dream come true!

Quote from: Megan on October 07, 2010, 02:48:20 AM
And if you like girls, what kind of girls in general in personality? Is a girl being feminine a huge thing? And what makes you turned on immediately?

I prefer men, but um... I do not have specifics I look for. I like to have fun, laugh, try new things when I can, etc. I can be charmed by intelligence and wit, compassion, timidity, and hey a good cook works, too!
Being feminine is not a huge thing; in fact, I don't find super feminine girls to my liking. :/ Just in my experience they tended to be high maintenance. Although if she is feminine but doesn't mind getting dirty and being outside, then it won't be an issue. Having a personal connection is the most important thing for me.
Immediate turn-ons for women, uh, I really like Dominance/submission so a woman who knows what she wants and can take it from you is pretty hot. The rest is way too much to explain.

What do you guys aim for, physically in becoming a guy?
I've got the androgynous thing going on as well - more male than female - and I'm fine with that.  I'd like to be a little more fit than I am right now.

What's the ideal guy look?
Well, that's really a personal preference. So what's MY ideal guy look? I honestly am not sure I have one particular look. I think all sorts of guys look good.

And how would you feel like if you were around 5'7 in height?
Eh, I'm pretty used to the height I am (5'3) so I imagine it would be pretty different to be taller at this point.

And if you like girls, what kind of girls in general in personality?
This is all over the board too. I'm usually attracted by personality first, looks second. And I don't have a particular type. If their interesting overall, that's a great start.

Is a girl being feminine a huge thing?
Not even.

And what makes you turned on immediately?
->-bleeped-<-s? LOL Seriously though, there's a number of different things that do it for me and some of them have nothing to do with sex per say. It could even be as silly as the way someone looks at me.

What do you guys aim for, physically in becoming a guy?
I guess "muscle twink" is the best description - not skinny and andro, somewhat muscular, but still young-looking, smooth-skinned, clean-shaven, nice hair. I'm gay and mostly a bottom, so it's important to me to have a nice body, lose all the chubbiness, fit well in my clothes.

What's the ideal guy look?
Depends on the guy - genetics and personality determine what a particular guy's ideal look is.

And how would you feel like if you were around 5'7 in height?
I am 5'7". Don't mind it at all.

And if you like girls, what kind of girls in general in personality?
Not into girls.

Is a girl being feminine a huge thing?
Don't care - still not interested

And what makes you turned on immediately?
When I first get within 1-2 feet of a guy, I may (or may not) be instantly turned on. I think it's the smell/pheromones. If the guy's totally physically unattractive that tends to kill it, of course.

1. I want to develop my physique so I have a big upper body and arms, and strong legs - the rugby player look.  When I start T, I want to grow a neat beard and also shave my hair really short.  I might get a tattoo, if I'm brave enough!

2. The ideal guy look is very personal, but I always am attracted to masculine guys who take care with their appearance - a big hairy guy who dresses well, has groomed stubble and nice aftershave is LUSH!

3. I would love to be taller (I'm 5'3"), but I don't mind being short as all the men in my family are- it's just genetic, not something that I associate with gender.

And the rest...  I'm gay, so I'll answer based on guys.  I like someone whose interests I share, who I can have a good conversation with, who shares my dry sense of humour, and who cares about other people.  I generally prefer quiet guys to loud, confident ones, probably because I'm shy myself.  And as for what turns me on immediately? Redtube, anyone? 

What do you guys aim for, physically in becoming a guy? What's the ideal guy look?
The ideal look for me is just to look like me... but with a fantastic beard. Honestly, as I've gotten more masculine and seen myself more in the mirror I've not really had to think up what look I'm shooting for. I have an idea of what I can look like on T and that's all I'm hoping to achieve.

And how would you feel like if you were around 5'7 in height?
I'd love to be 5'7" I'm a short bugger.

And if you like girls, what kind of girls in general in personality?
I like sweet girls. Someone who's optimistic, a "the glass is half full" kinda personality. Someone who can show her vulnerability and will let me take care of her, but will also step up and take care of me from time to time. The girls I'm most attracted to are those who bring out the protector in me and just make me smile at how darned cute and sweet they are.

Is a girl being feminine a huge thing?
Not really. I'm not gonna ditch a girl cause I find out she likes sports or doesn't shave her armpits.

And what makes you turned on immediately?
Oooh, that's a tough question. Depends on the mood I'm in and who I'm with.

I'd like the ability to grow facial hair, though I'm not sure I'll actually grow it much once I have it.  I want to be muscular, but not bulky or anything.  I don't want to be super hairy, though I think I probably will be.  And I'd like to be somewhat androgynous-looking, but still definitely male.  My height doesn't bother me much (I'm 5'5"), but a few extra inches would be nice.

There's not really a particular "type" of girls (or boys) that I'm attracted to.  I tend to be more physically attracted to androgynous people in general, though.  So no, I don't much care if a girl is really feminine.