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I have a problem around cisguys.

Started by Devyn, October 07, 2010, 08:41:07 PM

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Jeatyn

Quote from: Gia on October 10, 2010, 12:06:15 PM
Men don't look at men. Period.

They do, actually....not even just the gay ones who are looking for obvious reasons :P

Sure cis guys won't have the same level of jealously towards other guys like transguys do but it does happen. Men still get insecure and compare themselves to other men. A guy with a huge beer gut is going to be a little jealous of a guy with a six pack and stuff like that.
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Gia

Quote from: Jeatyn on October 10, 2010, 05:21:52 PM
A guy with a huge beer gut is going to be a little jealous of a guy with a six pack and stuff like that.

If one guy seems jealous, he actually may be just more sensitive then the other. It may not actually be a body appearance issue.

Do less sensitive cisguys seem more aggressive?
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Jeatyn

I'm confused, if a guy is jealous of another guys 6 pack how is this not a body appearance issue regardless of how sensitive he is?

This may be a generational thing but most of the guys I've associated with do actually care about their appearance and notice when another guy appears more attractive than them just like girls do. I know a bald guy for example who gets jealous of guys with nice hair and gets really down about it sometimes, I wouldn't say he's particularly sensitive.
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Gia

Quote from: Jeatyn on October 11, 2010, 04:34:07 PM
I'm confused, if a guy is jealous of another guys 6 pack how is this not a body appearance issue regardless of how sensitive he is?

We would have to debate about genetics, see how we agree on the minutes, compare those use cases, and sort out the ones that are diagnosed insensitive. The inverse value weighs in light to the subject of sensitivity, a small sample of all senses.

Don't forget to factor in the existence of people censused as alive and have no other evidence of birth, origin, or nationality to support any definition of their life here on Earth. Under microscopic scalability, the average human eyesight doesn't render such differences unless reprojected with a tool.

Why be so jealous of a specific instance when anybody can sit at home in the closet all alone with the magazine lamp attached loosely to a page? You may have assumed what kind of lamp, yet the magazines was about lights around the world, galleries & sales. The pages illuminated. The had samples of lights from different sources, and these are part of the magazine.

Once the shared candles, and made people smile. Now they share magazines of lights.

QuoteThis may be a generational thing but most of the guys I've associated with do actually care about their appearance and notice when another guy appears more attractive than them just like girls do.

That's not obvious to make any weight, so what is the point?

"Don't" cheat this and mumble something about a prime directive.  :D

You had to been there. This is crowdsourcable, and there is still no dumb looks on how this works.

As said before, some attractions are positive and some are negative. Let's agree the flow is always a forward motion. That motion weighs in on the proposition: it is this way or that way.

Don't assume the attractions all have the same origin of affect, so this easily weighs in as a many-to-many relationship. Clues from the "Get Over It" toy recycle department, here. These are very significant, especially if somehow inventoried two souls that want to communicate found they have nothing in common, so how did that start? Paralanguage, maybe. Pheromones are off the wall as anything remotely stable for safety reasons. With teeth, as spoken. and added wide angled smile. Their diet didn't agree with how we let them smell.

Bluetooth any package, even livestock, from any food source. This then could lead to finely detailed flows. Harvesters may be inspired with the greater knowledge from global connectivity. Example, some plants prefer zodiacial phases instead of moon phases, so let these zodiacal crops move seed and harvest times around the Earth. That may be new growth or old growth, transplanted.

Sounds like you are still in a red & blue veins society. Avoid hellish bloodline tangles, and go green. Some people have odd ways to justify their existence.

Wow! They awake one day and probably blamed it all on the drugs why he never noticed something before until he knew difference when it's gone. Verify the source route distribution. ("Stop typing nonsense" they tell me by now) Let's consider lost food items, or maybe lost livestock, or lost delivery. Spaghetti monster turns over in it's grave. With terminator seeds, a lost delivery of that, bulk, may turn into global suspense. (Or, mass cryogenic events.)

[fiction]"Hey, that guy in tube B4-176, has nice abs. If any other guy doesn't have abs like that.... best get off this ship..... or donate themselves to a refirmatory."[/fiction]

Jealousy can be said a lack of love for self, yet jealousy also carries a sense of direction. Pay attention to self. One who is not naive about their environment is aware, at least this much. Differences can be quite a fascination. Don't let such fascination so easily convince you. One day it may be the person you want and next day you realize it is the appearance you want, the moment, prototyped, for sculptists. Look. Learn. A visual strength shouldn't be so easily infected by discrimination or stereotypes. Secrets don't evolve. You don't always get what you want. Audit resources and determine scarcity. Jealousy may indicate a source of scarcity.





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Alessandro

Quote from: Shayne on October 08, 2010, 08:58:15 PM
Because I'm gay I have this weird attraction/jealousy cycle going on in my head all the time. I see a hot guy and I'm like, oh damn he's hot, damn I'm jealous of his body, but damn he's hot, but damn I wish I had what he has.......ahhhhhhhh, it never ends. Sometimes I wish I wasn't gay.

I have pretty much exactly this problem all the bloody time   :'(
"You can't look where you're going if you don't know where you're going"
-Labyrinth
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ALBdegas

"Why would a woman cut her t*ts off? She was such a pretty lesbian!"

That statement is beyond ignorant !

And honestly, I've never had that problem with being friends with guys. I did however have ONE guy try and hit on me, and I told him to back off.. He kept pushing, going as far as sending me love poems,making up highly ridiculous stories that were almost fairy tale, and everytime we IM'ed each other he was ready to write a poem about me. It bothered the crap out of me because I told him I wasn't really attracted to him nor men in general . He kept pushing it, and eventually, I just had to cut him off. Didn't want to, but it was for the better because after I told him to stop numerous times, he wouldn't.
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Aegir

Quote from: Aegir on October 09, 2010, 10:56:33 AM
I never really get jealous, I've got what I've got; but the "attempting to [word omitted by censor] me" thing is still a serious problem even though I'm married. I'm starting to get in good with some guys who I'm pretty sure don't want to [word omitted by censor] me, so have hope- it gets better once you're out of high-school.

Whoops, spoke too soon. Turns out some of those guys wanted to ->-bleeped-<- me afterall and didn't admit it until they were drunk.

Nevermind that's a problem forever I guess.
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Gia

Quote from: Alessandro on October 13, 2010, 06:30:52 AM
I have pretty much exactly this problem all the bloody time   :'(

This still highly relates to simply having an open mind.

An open mind is not a problem, so I guess we could say all open minds are gay.

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