I have been wrking know about a week. I took this job because it is more girly. however there are wmen around me all day long. I have been having more disphoric episode around them. I feel ugly. I used to just block out my life but since I have been focusing on not forgeting who I am it is starting to bother me because I want more then ever to be seen as a woman. It is driving me crazy how uneasy I am around them. One girl said that her legs were burning because she shaved before coming to work and swet was get into the cuts. lol. I told her to put baby powder on them before she goes to work it help ubsorb swet. I told her not to ask me how I know that. She laught  and looked at me funny ever since then she trys to hang around me.

   You'll get there, I can see it in your face. Your going to make a nice woman. You should enjoy hanging with the girls. If you make then feel relaxed around you. You'll be able to pick up on there little habits.

  Doesn't it make you just giggle to know you know something girly that they don't.

Erocse
   
   If you want to be a tree. The best thing to do is, find yourself a forest. Stand in the mist of it with your hands stretched high, up to the sky. Sooner then you know. You will have birds pooping in your hair. Just like a they do to real trees.

   

lol that's funny. thanks. yes it did feel good to know something girly that she did not.

What sort of job is it? I think you need to give yourself more time to settle in.

I agree with erocse - you've got a jaw bone structure that I'm a bit jealous of!

laineyjain.

One thing I've learnt, working with a lot of women. Just be yourself. If you have something to hide, they invariably see this as a some sort of challange and will niggle at you.

I don't know what things are like where you are, but I would, personally, be careful mentioning too much about myself and my personal ambitions. Some women like to 'Have A Man About  the Place'.

Again, in your case, I'd mention my family and how important they are to me, then pretty much try to get on with the job, learning who is top dog and respecting her. (It's generally not the one in charge).

best of luck.

It is just a popcorn factory. I have said something about my familiy