Hello to all.
Background.
While growing up I concluded that everyone learned how to be the gender that corresponded with the body. What came naturally to me was, apparently, "wrong" but I didn't agree with that. I've always tended to decide what is right for me.
Life hasn't always been good as a result but it was my choice to be myself as far as was possible at any given time. Eventually, recently, I did relate to something in the media and realised that I had been following my gender identity's directions all my life. It was good to learn something that confirmed what I had vaguely thought.
I have an understanding SO. If I was younger this would be a liberating discovery but I'm not so it's more of a Pandora's box with the lid off for us right now. At least I know I was right and my discovery explains much that never made sense before.