So I was texing back and forth with my BF (he lives 2 hours away and we've only ever met in person once, yes I need to stop getting myself into these situations! LOL) Well something came up and he said "You sure you know me that well?" and I had said "Well if you get your butt up here so I CAN get to know you, maybe I would!"

ok.. simple..

THEN later on in the convo he had called me his "baby girl" and I just replied with "boy? right?" (he has a tendency to forget, but he's getting better!) and he goes "Yeah, sorry I forgot!!"
"Well don't forget! I'm your baby BOY! "
"Well since you're my baby boy, can I be your girl?"
(WHAT in the world is going on?? That's out of nowhere!) "I guess? lol You're silly!"
"you're the boy right? well I'm the girl I really want to be a girl. Honestly" 
"You're joking!"
"Why that?"
"because I think you're lying and joking with me"
"Nope"
"really?"
"I've always have dremed about playin wit my pussy" 
"You've got to be joking, right?"
"Lol. nope. u ok wit that?"
"of course"

This is just really weird for me right now... I can't tell if he's joking with me or if he's serious! If he's joking, it's not funny anymore, that's for sure! Right now I kind of feel like a "trans magnet" or something, at least with my track record I do!


He's got to be joking right?? Why oh why did this conversation have to happen through text messages?? Oy!!!!

--Aidan (mildly freaking out and trying to figure out what's going on!!)

Goodness I had a hard time keeping up with that!

I can see where that would get weird, but honestly... it's not uncommon for guys to wonder about what it'd be like to be female... same goes for girls... it's like... "would peeing with a penis feel different?" Except men are more sexual in theory.

IDK love. Either yoou can take it serious and bring it up again ... or you can let it slide. I think it may need to be discussed again, but ease into it. If you're going to be in a relationship, you've gotta be honest and communicate. Trust babe, it's gotta be there.

I agree, it may need to be brought up again to at least clear things up.
I wouldn't worry too much about it, either he was joking around or trying to make sense of things. Sometimes it's hard for the other person to get used to things and their role in everything.

Lots of guys talk like that, unless he keeps it up or adds to it, it doesn't mean a thing.