My friend that I came out to no matter how many times I've corrected her, still insits on calling a girl and everything else that comes with it. It's aggrevating. Not to mention a few others I've came out to is doing the same thing. I just feel like throwing in the towel and give up and try to "be" a girl.. I don't like the idea at all... I've tried to ignore them thinking it will pass and they would call me a he and my male name, correct them when they use the wrong pronouns, nothing works. So I guess if it will make them happy..

No.  The question is will it make YOU happy?  The answer clearly is no. 

Stop allowing your friends to control what you think and the way you feel about yourself.  They don't sound like good friends if they don't respect your wishes.  Make sure they understand you are serious about this.  Be firm, loud and clear.  If they still insist on calling you a girl they are teasing you.  I wouldn't like to be around someone like that.   

Squirrel said it all. Be yourself alright? True friends want what makes you happy. Sure, if they knew you in "girl mode" maybe they won't always get it 100% right but if they're not even trying it sounds like they are just messing with you and I hate to say it man but friends don't do that.

edit: I have days where I think that just being a girl would make my mom happy but I realize if she truly cares about me she wants me happy. Don't give up your happiness for anyone else.

I second all of the above and don't have anything to really add.

Your happiness is what counts because it's your life that you have to live.

Ya'll are right, I can't be nobody but who I am. I'm can't be that girl they either want me to be or wish I was, I'm a guy and I know this with no doubt. I just wish they would stop refering to me as an girl, and I'll try your suggestions next time I talk to them. If that don't work then I dunno unless I give them the boot out of my life.

Well I just got done writing an e-mail to one of my friends who is the main one that does all this crap telling her how this crap is effecting me and basically telling her that I am a guy regaurdless if she likes it or not and I can understand if someone forgot that I am a guy but if it is not forgetfullness then it is called teasing. And that I can't ignore this any longer and I need to be heard. No reply yet.

I wish you luck. I hope it's a good reply.

Thank you. I do to. I'm kinda over it now just nervous a bit cause still in waiting.

Well today has had its thing as she decided to call me right when I was trying to get my kid to lie down for a nap. I didn't answer my phone, she left a voicemail saying: "I got your e-mail, call me back *insert female name*" I txted her telling her why I didn't answer my phone and she's all ok, then I asked her what she thought of what all I told her and she laughed at me and said idk. That's when I let her have it I told her that I stand by what I said and all she could say was ok. Then later on she e-mails me back saying "ok I understand" and leaves it at that. Haven't heard from her since. So idk what the deal is and frankly at this point I couldn't less. What will be will be and the wheel keeps turning. *blah*