i know this is gonna sound very stupid but i walk like a girl & yes i'm being truthfull  about this i mean with me it's kinda like a sliding motion when i talk because i've had lots of operations with my legs so i could walk, the unfortunate or fortunate depending on pov is that when i walk i walk like a girl, i really did not know this until i thought back i guess i'm never gonna change about this but i would not even if i wanted to a also do the crossthe legs thing while standing up, does anyone else have this problem as well.

Well less of a problem, more of a blessing

but hrmmm what bothers you about it? do work or family notice

yes well it's my mom ever since i let my hair grow out and the other thing she's been screaming quit acting like a girl constently, i mean i can't help it i mean i've been walking this way since i had the operations years ago, and it's really getting on my last damned nerve

For advice, to walk like a guy its kind of easier to "learn" (in my opinion)

Men sort of fall on their feet. Like lift foot, move foreward, and *depend* on that foot touching the ground. Put your mass in motion before the foot touches the ground. continue moving your mass slightly more in front of your legs. Lean foreward.

Slouching is a very guy-ish thing. It comes naturally. Broaden shoulders when talking about stuff.

play violent video-games. Thats a guy-ish thing in most people's eyes.

eat like a horse? (I know I do)

There is a lot of unconsious things you do that may make you seem girly. Try to think what other things you do that give you that problem.

Make sure that you can not stop your foot when walking and its about to touch the ground. That is the show of ungracefulness that may help you.
Hope that helped.

that's not really it i think your mising the point  kinda i DON'T wanna be a guy i've always been kinda femme anyway

then go on doing what your doing hun your mom will eventually get tired of argueing or correcting you and will stop
jessica

thank you ma'mm for the advice and goddess knows i need all the postive insperation and moatavation that i need

I meant for advice to hide it  . You did say people were giving you trouble for it.

Have you reminded her that it was the doctor's fault?

For some reason I can't view your profile so I don't know anything about you.

Buit if you are young then you will need to sort out your relationship with your mom.

If you are oldr then perhaps it's time to move on.

You will need to have more than 15 posts them you will get more rights. 

Susan

Thank you Susan.

It isn't a problem as such, just that I had to offer alternatives based upon which age group.

Maybe you should start being a little "over the top", especially when she says something. That might at least make her leave you alone!  lol