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Mum and dad gave my hormones to the doctor...

Started by JustAnotherDreamer, November 01, 2010, 06:15:23 PM

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Miniar

Quote from: Seven on November 08, 2010, 02:19:45 PMMiniar: my reference was to your statement, as an absolute that DIYing individuals should be put into monitored regimens with no suggestion that some people (myself included) might want to opt out. Then there's the implication that everyone who self-medicates is motivated by what you describe as "need" in the same terms as physically addictive drugs. If those were oversights and not deliberate arrogant and tyranniacal statements, fine.

I did not mean to imply that we are addicted to our hormones, nor did I state that everyone who self-medicates are addicted.

I stated that "we" (as in all of us who transition) need our hormones. The story's repeated often enough so that I feel I am able to make that statement. We think better, feel better, look more like ourselves, etc, etc, etc, etc, on them. We require our hormones, all of us, myself included, hence the use of the world "we".

And I explained quite calmly and carefully why regular blood-tests are important, which is why I feel that the only way we can be sure that we're not doing any harm is to have the actual numbers. The only way to get the actual numbers is via a doctor.
This is what I mean by monitored.



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Tippe

Quote from: Keroppi on November 08, 2010, 04:13:41 PMI understand the opinion that since people are going to self med anyway, then let's provide the information for them to do it more safely. However, since most posters are not actual experts, anything they state are at best hearsay.

No, actually some of us do provide well-referenced documents. You don't have to be an expert yourself to be able to share expert references.



Quote from: pebbles on November 08, 2010, 12:40:57 PM
Of course it can be, So we have to provide accurate and non-misleading information about those hazards and allow an individuals at the end of the day to make an informed choice and respect that they made that choice with all the facts for themselves regardless of whether we would have picked that path or not.

Yup, gatekeeping is entirely bad because of how it affects our honesty and personal development. We certainly shouldn't be the ones acting as gatekeepers in front of fellow transsexuals. For a few references on how this affects people here are some quotes from a paper I'm preparing for the Danish National Board of Health...

From Standards of Care for Gender Identity Disorders:
"Belief in the true transsexual concept for males dissipated when it was realized that such patients were rarely encountered, and thatsome of the original true transsexuals had falsified their histories to make their stories match the earliest theories about the disorder." (5, s. 3).

further

"Ideally, psychotherapy is a collaborative effort. The therapist must be certain that the patient understands the concepts of eligibility and readiness, because the therapist and patient must cooperate in defining the patient's problems, and in assessing progress in dealing with them. Collaboration can prevent a stalemate between a therapist who seems needlessly withholding of a recommendation, and a patient who seems too profoundly distrusting to freely share thoughts, feelings, events, and relationships." (5, s. 12).

From Counselling and Mental Health Care for Transgender Adults and Loved Ones:
"Clinicians conducting assessment prior to initiation of hormones or surgery are in a "gatekeeper" role that involves a power dynamic which can significantly affect therapeutic rapport (Rachlin, 2002). The client often perceives the evaluation not as a desired tool to help them therapeutically determine a plan of action, but rather as a hoop that must be jumped through to reach desired goals, a frightening loss of physical and psychological autonomy, or a type of institutionalized transphobic discrimination – as psychological evaluation is not required for non-transgender individuals requesting hormones, breast augmentation, or hysterectomy (Brown & Rounsley, 1996). In BC, surgery assessors are appointed by the BC Medical Services Plan, further reducing clients' sense of choice about the assessment process.
(...)
Normalizing emotional reactions clients commonly have (e.g., anger, anxiety, fear) and also the common behaviours (e.g., trying to tell the assessor what the client thinks they want to hear, being belligerent/uncooperative, being manipulative) helps frame this as a systems issue rather than a personal power struggle. Discussion about what the assessment process involves (discussed in the next section) is imperative as client anxiety or anger is often heightened by inaccurate understanding of the process." (7, s. 19).

Madeline H. Wyndzen, Ph. D. writes:
"At one time you couldn't transition if you weren't completely 'homosexual' because *obviously* a 'real' female is completely heterosexual. As transsexuals discovered this bias, they lied in order to get surgery. Fortunately today most gender clinics accept sexual orientation and gender identity are distinct." (32).

Yolanda LS Smith, Ph. D. states:
"In most SR applicants the motivation for engaging in psychotherapy is very low. For some because they expect that all their problems will disappear after obtaining SR. Others do not confide in the therapist because they, sometimes correctly, expect to be denied SR, when they are open about their problems."
[Smith, YLS. Sex Reassignment: Predictors and Outcomes of Treatment for Transsexuals. Universiteit Utrecht, 2002. s. 23. URL: : http://igitur-archive.library.uu.nl/dissertations/2002-0808-103443/inhoud.htm]

Anne Lawrence, Ph. D. declares:
"postoperatively collected data may be more accurate in some ways than data collected preoperatively, because it is less likely to be distorted by selective reporting or deliberate dissimulation, which transsexuals sometimes believe are required in order to obtain surgery (Lawrence, 1997; Walworth, 1997)" [Lawrence, AA. Factors associated with satisfaction or regret following male-to-female sex reassignment surgery. Archives of Sexual Behavior, Vol 32, 2003. pp. 299–315.] (s. 312).

Johnsson and Wasserzug writes in a study:
"Cohen-Kettenis and Pfafflin noted that such individuals ''seek contact with medical professionals to have surgical or chemical castration only.'' What Cohen-Kettenis and Pfafflin did not emphasize was the difficulty that these men face given the available diagnoses in the DSM-IV. Many fit the GID-Not Otherwise Specified (GID-NOS) diagnosis in the DSM. However, it is our experience that an ''NOS'' GID is sufficiently vague that it is more of an obstacle than an aid in obtaining a referral for an orchiectomy in most parts of the Western world. In many places, it will not get them access to hormones either. This leaves the individuals two options: they can lie about the nature of their GID and claim that they are male-to-female (MtF) transsexuals in order to obtain hormones or an orchiectomy, or they can go outside of the established medical system for treatment." (30).

Jay Prosser writes in an antology of transsexuals:
"In effect, to be transsexual, the subject must be a skilled narrator of his or her own life. Tell the story persuasively, and you're likely to get your hormones and surgery" [Prosser, Jay. Scond Skins: The Body Narratives of Transsexuality, 1998.].

Judith Butler writes:
"one has to be gauged against measures of normalcy; and one has to pass the test. (...) The price of using the diagnosis to get what one wants is that one cannot use the language to say what one really thinks is true. One pays for one's freedom" [Butler, J. Undoing Gender, Routledge, New York and London, 2004. s. 91].

From a wikipedia-article:
"Legal needs such as a change of sex on legal documents, and medical needs, such as sex reassignment surgery, are usually impossible to obtain without a doctor and/or therapist's approval. Due to this, many transsexual people feel coerced into affirming pre-ordained symptoms of self-loathing, impotence, and sexual-preference, in order to overcome simple legal and medical hurdles. (Brown 107) Transsexual people who do not submit to this medical hierarchy typically face the option of remaining invisible, with limited legal options and, possibly, with identification documents incongruent with gender presentation."
[Sex reassignment therapy I: Wikipedia, 27. maj 2010. URL: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gender_reassignment_therapy]

Marissa Dainton was quoted in The Guardian:
"Dainton says patients encourage each other purposely to avoid discussing issues that might hold up their treatment. "Most people who go to psychiatrists with a view to changing gender have actually researched and know a lot of the things they should say - and some of the things they should stay clear of."
[Batty D. Mistaken identity. The Guardian, Saturday 31 July 2004. URL: http://www.guardian.co.uk/society/2004/jul/31/health.socialcare]



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JohnR

Quote from: Janet Lynn on November 07, 2010, 06:41:41 PM
:police:  Enough

the rules here stated we do not allow talk about DIY HRT.

It is dangerous and can lead to death.  Yes people do it but that does not mean it is right.


Could that be altered to disallowing promoting DIY HRT but allowing discussion on a case by case basis? For example some DIYers may have experiences that potential DIYers ought to be aware of. All too often it is tempting to say "yes, those are the risks, but it won't happen to me" when potential DIYers read clinical papers, but having a first hand account from a real transperson can bring home that this is a very real risk.

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Sarah Louise

Susan has made a decision that promoting Self Medication and the discussion of recommended doses would put this site in a position to face legal problems.

These are the rules of this Forum, if you can not accept that, you might be better served looking elsewhere.

I am not stupid, self medication goes on daily, or there would not be so many sites you can buy medications without a prescription.  The problem is you never know when your getting fake medication, out of date medication, etc. 

If you want to self medicate, your going to no matter what we say.  I just suggest you get blood tests to make sure your not harming yourself.

Sarah L.
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Janet_Girl

Quote from: Rule 8 TOSThe discussion of hormone replacement therapy(HRT) and it's medications are permitted, with the following limitations:

A. Advocating for or against a specific medication or combinations of medications for personal gain is strictly prohibited.
B. Discussing the means to acquire HRT medications without a prescription, and self medication without a doctors care is prohibited.
C. Discussing dosages is strongly discouraged to prevent information obtained on this site from being used to self medicate.

We can not in good conscience condone the self administering of these medications. Not only may self medication be illegal, but HRT medications can cause serious health problems, and many have the potential for life-threatening side effects that can only be detected and prevented with proper medical supervision.

I placed the warning because I can see this becoming a flame war.

If you wish to discuss it, do it without attacks on another member.
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glendagladwitch

RE teh rulez

Susan has to protect herself and the site from legal repercussions.  It might really be a choice between a forum that doesn't allow promoting illegal DIY HRT (especially to minors), and no forum at all. 

Meanwhile, I think there are also some rulez about protesting teh rulez.  I applaud the moderators generosity and forbearance in re tat.

Those of us who disagree have many many options for doing as we please (i.e., PM or email) without putting the site at risk.  It's time to act smart.

/lecture

This is my 666th post!  Wheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!
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regan

Susan's forum, Susan's rules.  I totally respect that.

HOWEVER, there are a number of easily accesible websites, reputable even, that post hormone regimens enabling someone to DIY very easily.  There is no evidence of resulting legal troubles, and they've been active for a number of years.

That said, I think it's a weak excuse to hide behind "the law" as reasoning for not allowing any discussions of DIY.
Our biograhies are our own and we need to accept our own diversity without being ashamed that we're somehow not trans enough.
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JustAnotherDreamer

Look guys don't argue!
I know hormones are extremely dangerous but it's my life so i will be making the decisions not my parents, doctor or anyone on this site.
Now with that being said i will continue self medicating, only this time i will be having regular blood tests and if my doctor doesn't like it then he will have to prescribe them!
Oh almost forgot, my doctor claimed that if i self medicate charring cross will take me of their books... is there any truth to this or is it just a stupid scare tactic?

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pebbles

My doctor described my self medicating as a complicating barrier to me getting care but I've been honest about my self-medicating to my GP and my psychiatrist who's assessed me. They've not stopped the process of referring me.

It would be medically very negligent for them to abandon you on that basis.
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spacial

Quote from: pebbles on November 10, 2010, 06:13:07 PM

It would be medically very negligent for them to abandon you on that basis.

Like that could ever stop them if they chose to.
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regan

Quote from: JustAnotherDreamer on November 10, 2010, 05:03:12 PM
Oh almost forgot, my doctor claimed that if i self medicate charring cross will take me of their books... is there any truth to this or is it just a stupid scare tactic?

I have heard that about Charing Cross, but I don't know of any instances where it actually happened.
Our biograhies are our own and we need to accept our own diversity without being ashamed that we're somehow not trans enough.
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Tippe

Quote from: JustAnotherDreamer on November 10, 2010, 05:03:12 PM
Oh almost forgot, my doctor claimed that if i self medicate charring cross will take me of their books... is there any truth to this or is it just a stupid scare tactic?

They say that in Denmark too, since they claim it 'interferes' with their diagnosis. Some people just tell them that they cannot foresee how it would hinder the psychologist sessions in any way. They continue taking the medication during their time at the clinic and noone has been kicked out for that reason as far as I know.



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Miniar

tbh, it sounds like a scare tactic. If they were to "refuse treatment" because you self medicate, I'd see about lawyering up cause that sounds, like has been said, clearly negligent.



"Everyone who has ever built anywhere a new heaven first found the power thereto in his own hell" - Nietzsche
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spacial

Quote from: Miniar on November 11, 2010, 06:55:48 AM
tbh, it sounds like a scare tactic. If they were to "refuse treatment" because you self medicate, I'd see about lawyering up cause that sounds, like has been said, clearly negligent.

Don't know the exact sitution in the US, but taking any legal action against a Dr here is almost impossible.

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tekla

And even in the states where such things are possible, good lawyers are insanely expensive.
FIGHT APATHY!, or don't...
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regan

Only the emergency room can't refuse to treat a patient.  Everyone else is fair game.  There's no grounds for negligence if they refuse to accept you as a patient.
Our biograhies are our own and we need to accept our own diversity without being ashamed that we're somehow not trans enough.
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