Okay so I have two peices a soft packer and an actual hard sex one...Well the problem is that the sex one I have is like too big for my girlfriend...she says it hurts her way too bad..i cant even get the head all the way in...we tried everything to make it hurt less but yea doesnt work...so I was going to just go down in a few sizes and we're pretty sure that will help ALOT.

The problem!

I cant afford to spend even more money on another one...so I was wondering...could we do it with my packer? i mean its a soft one and its a lot smaller I just want to make sure before I actually try it and if it doesnt work and feel stupid you know?

What do you think?

I've heard from people who have tried and apparently it can mess your packer up. Does something to the material.
Although I don't understand how you could have sex with a packer. Surely it's too limp and squishy?

A regular packer you can't do anything with. Why not go "downtown" until you can afford a new hard one? Also, it might help determine what size by penetrating your partner with your fingers and measuring the "girth" of what she usually takes or asking her to help you choose.

Can a bio guy have sex with a soft one? Um, not that great! Certain types of sex yeah ...