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If you are FTM would you want to be pregnant?

Started by Sophie90, January 04, 2009, 05:53:26 PM

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Would you like to be pregnant?

Yes
Maybe
No
I think I just threw up in my mouth a little... NO!

Raven

I've been pregnant before (by accidental). It was an really awkard feeling for me espically when my daughter would punch and kick me like I was punching bag. I had a scheaduled birth my dr induced my labor. My labor did hurt quite a bit, but still I was barely in tears during all of the labor. My blood preasure went up to much tho so they gave the shot which stopped my labor and I ended up having a c section. I was doped up on morphine and the epidural so I didn't feel a thing. But I don't want any more babie coming out of me heh. Too awkard and creepy for me heh.
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JosephKT

I guess I don't really know.  I've thought that I was certain I was transgendered when I realized the worst thing about being born female is that I'll never get to be a father.  Can you be a father after carrying a child?  It's a weird thought.  I'm filled with an overall feeling of gross every time I have my period, I can't imagine feeling okay about being pregnant, but if it's my own child how can I possibly reject it.

It's weird, I've thought about this one for a while and I guess despite my own discomfort if my partner and I could have a son I would bear him because he would be too precious to give to anyone else.
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Devyn

Oh hell no.
Even before I recognized I was transsexual, I hated - loathed - the idea of me giving birth. I wouldn't mind having a child, but I just refuse to give birth. I want to be the one holding my wife's hand while she's giving birth, not being the one giving birth. Or, since I'm bisexual, if I ended up with a guy, I would adopt.
However, I don't really want a kid unless the person I'm with really wants one. The same goes for marriage, honestly. I don't really want one unless the other person is dying to have one. In which case, I don't really want to hold them back from the things they want.
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Liam K

Not a chance.  It was not even something I could envision myself doing back when I thought of myself as a girl.  And now, the thought of being pregnant is utterly horrifying to me.
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Gia

Wow!  I said "yes" would... as this feel natural to me no matter who i am. I guess I am different from most considering there is only 8 that said yes and most said otherwise.

Ouch?
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Jeatyn

Quote from: Gia on October 01, 2010, 01:02:03 PM
Wow!  I said "yes" would... as this feel natural to me no matter who i am. I guess I am different from most considering there is only 8 that said yes and most said otherwise.

Ouch?

I'm pretty sure you aren't FTM, that'll be why your answer is different from most
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Gia

Quote from: Jeatyn on October 06, 2010, 05:33:47 AM
I'm pretty sure you aren't FTM, that'll be why your answer is different from most

Did I ever have a choice? Is is that a problem solved?

:P  dang evolution classes always a race case
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DylanAugusten

Ever since I was really little, like 4 or 5, I have said I wanted to adopt. And at this point I don't ever see myself wanting to have a child, hysto- is top on my to do list.
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BloodLeopard

I would rather being humiliatingly tortured and killed.
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Mr.Rainey

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BloodLeopard

Quote from: Mr.Rainey on November 24, 2010, 09:25:43 AM
I am NOT a seahoarse. The answer is NO!

Omfg. You just made me shoot water out my nose. XD
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jamherst

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Harbor

absolutely not. i've had bad dreams about getting pregnant. thinking about how much the idea disgusted me was one of the things that made me start questioning my gender in the first place.
I am a son of Hades...
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LordKAT

Quote from: lostradio on November 24, 2010, 06:08:33 PM
absolutely not. i've had bad dreams about getting pregnant. thinking about how much the idea disgusted me was one of the things that made me start questioning my gender in the first place.

Now have that choice taken from you. It changes things.
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deadkazi

I have already had two and after the last one I told them to rip all that crap out of my body before I did it myself. I made it very clear to the doctor I NEVER wanted to be pregnant again. Now...do I love my kids? Oh yes, I do. I have a girl and a boy that I love to death. My daughter will be 4 this coming May...My son with be 2 in February...It's rough...but I don't regret it.....It felt weird and nasty to me yea....but in the end worth it.
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Nero

I would never want to be pregnant and sometimes I feel sad that I will never have any flesh and blood offspring. Egg freezing and transplantation isn't that feasible an option. Really, for most female bodied people the options are bear a child or go without biological offspring. The desire to procreate and continue one's line is natural. That puts us in a tough position. Each guy ends up choosing the lesser of those two evils according to him.
Nero was the Forum Admin here at Susan's Place for several years up to the time of his death.
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some ftm guy

pregnancy in general weirds me out and makes me pretty uncomfortable. problem with that is, there's always some pregnant woman around. it seems all people know how to do around here is reproduce >:(

i realized eventually after figuring out I'm into dudes that first, i be paranoid about him being protected if he's a g guy and if i accidentally got pregnant I'd HAVE to get an abortion. there's no way i could torture myself like that by staying pregnant any more than a couple weeks or something. and i think it's really irresponsible for me to be a parent anyway seeing as i don't really like kids that much, yeah they're cute..when they're not crying, screaming, throwing a fit which they all probably do on at least a weekly basis. being horrible, smart mouthing they're parents or whoever they're with with the same language people in their 30's use - I've seen waaaaaay too many kids even really young ones, act this way. it seems to be normal now and i have a good feeling parenting would make me miserable. plus there's all the crap that runs in my family. physical or mental. just no. insanity.
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Berserk

Oh hell no! :o "I think I just vomited in my mouth a little" pretty much hits the nail on the head for me...
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