Be Careful what you say.  Make sure what you say is something you came to understand without peer presure. I know because i had this happen to me when someone i knew wanted me to stay pre op but i wanted surgery no matter what. I had hoped they would still love me but they dumped me in a flash right after my surgery. She was another post op too. She went with another preop / non op but she eventually broke her heart too. So the truth came out in the long run and i didn't make that mistake for her false luv.

I also had someone wish i could grow a penis and they prayed hard for me and were mad at me for not growing one (not believing enough in God) but i knew i really didn't want one and God would still love me and had helped me to get SRS. However, i did want breast reduction because i had implants and they were at over a 10 year place in time and i wondered if the saline would ever rupture and create mold and infect my chest which i thought to be worse than silcone rupture. I did get the reduction but i had thought i was going to be totally flat chested like the guyz here but i still can't go shirtless. I supose there will be a reason that reveals itself to me some time in the future but right now i still wish i could go shirtless.

The point i am getting to is its great to think on your own and not feel like you have to do what others are doing just because you may look up to them or want to be liked by them for god knows what reason. One of these days you will have to live with yourself. That other person or group may not be there and you will have to deal with the repercusions of your actions.

If you have had any of these things happen to you feel free to share them here in this thread and get honest and get to know yourself better by standing on your own outloud here.

I AM GLAD I WENT ALONE WITH MY DECISIONS AND I AM STILL HAPPY WITH MY CHOICES EVEN THOUGH AT THE TIME I DIDN'T WANT TO LOSE WHAT I THOUGHT WAS LUV.