I break my gender up into 3 parts really
1.) Male in me
2.) Female in me
3.) Neutral
Male in me
If I were to compare myself to my other family members (which is the main measuring stick that I have in existence for judgement purposes = 5 brothers), I know I am less than half male, maybe somewhere around a third or quarter. The male side that is in me is important , very real, and I would never give up.
Female in me
Now If I compare myself to my other measuring stick from my family (my 3 sisters) I might be somewhere around half the female they are.
Neutral
There is bunch that overlaps both and is neither, around maybe 20% of me favors neither gender.
LoL dont worry about the math. I am not checking to see if it adds up to 100%, or goes over 100% because I know the nuetral overlaps some of the male and female, as well as containing parts of me purely neutral.
Actions- I act like a feminine male in public except voice.
Appearance- more androgynous now- small breasts, facial hair sometimes, long fingernails unpainted, earrings (normally pink stones), shaped eyebrows, trimmed body hair, either work slacks, shorts, or even women's pants, polo, color T-shirts, simple blouse, sometimes layered with a men's formal shirt open.
Voice and Communications- Male.
Relationship-I am the "female" in our relationship whatever that means