Me, I look mostly male, feel mostly female and wear mostly female clothing.
And Jillieann seem to be the leader.
How about you?

Jillieann/JR

I look mostly male and wear as much female clothing as I dare right now. Inside, I'm still going with a 50/50 mix of male and female. I have a sneaky suspicion that I'm tipping more to the female side the more I let my guard down, but my gender is pretty fluid so it's kind of hard to say.

I am mostly male.

Iam happy in either Male or female clothing. Out in society I am happy in my male clothing and that seams to be the dominate side at the moment.

Alice

I feel mostly female, I feel about 75% female and 25% male I think. I wear mostly female clothes, but I dress kinda androgynously. I dress kinda in the middle, I guess I kinda either look like a girl who is a tomboy, or a younger guy with long hair. People do use female pronouns around me alot though. Lately it seems the male pronouns only happen when my voice sounds too male (I need more practice), or my facial hair is too visible, like after a laser appointment.

Great question J/JR!

Outside I look male (beards do that to people), yet if you look close, arms/hands are shaved, nails long and buffed shiny...all while in work drab.  Outside of work, in public, I dress in ladies jeans, sometimes blouses/shirts, some makeup, nails polished...pretty androgynous looking.  At home...little if any male clothing is worn unless I'm working outside and don't want to ruin my clothes.  (Somehow it doesn't matter to me if the men's jeans and t-shirts get messed up, but I care way too much about my ladies' clothes to risk them...maybe because I have a closet full of boy clothes, some specifically for getting messy  ).

Inside...sometimes male...sometimes female...sometimes VERY female.  I would guess about 1/3 male, 2/3 female, but truthfully, they shift around so much it is hard to pin down.  Guess I should keep it simple and say I feel more female than male.

Outside we look mostly male. We dress mostly male.
As a matter of fact, it would be difficult for someone to tell theres anything different about me genderwise unless you talked to me. And actually this has been the topic of concern for me since I would assume that Mia would have a desire to dress as a female. Apparently though, all the years that I was crossdressing in private was only to get noticed and now that I have identified her as a real part of me, the desire to do so suddenly stopped. It is quite amazing how important it is to be recognized.

This goes without saying but 50/50 split right down the middle male/female, half and half, seperate but working together. We have no identifible leader between the two of us.

Mia and Marq

I feel like me... as always... mainly it depends on comfort and mood.  Sometimes i feel like wearing a sweatshirt and jeans.  Sometimes i want to wear my husband's shirts.  Sometimes i want to wear a long skirt and tight fitting shirt with stockings and shoes.  And, when the weather's right, i'll wear a short skirt or dress with or without stockings.  Sometimes i'll wear goth clothing.  Lately it's been mainly my husbands shirts with a really tight pair of jeans.  I don't really fall into a "catergory" and that's what I enjoy.  I'm happy being me. 

I look clearly male, and tend to act male.  The more you get to know me, the more you'll see my more feminine characteristics.  For example, I'm very closed about my emotions toward everyone but my close friends, but I'm much more open with them.

As for how I feel inside about myself?  That's fluid.  Sometimes I feel totally like a guy, sometimes totally like a girl.  I'm happiest when I feel like both at once, which has kept me convinced that I really am an androgyne.

Hi Wild abd Free,
Good to see you posting again. Was asking Marq and Mia about you the other day.

As far as % go 100% female now, no, now 100% male, no now 100% female........ get the idea.
More of the time I'm female than male.

Jillieann/JR   

I break my gender up into 3 parts really

1.) Male in me
2.) Female in me
3.) Neutral

Male in me
If I were to compare myself to my other family members (which is the main measuring stick that I have in existence for judgement purposes = 5 brothers), I know I am less than half male, maybe somewhere around a third or quarter. The male side that is in me is important , very real, and I would never give up.

Female in me
Now If I compare myself to my other measuring stick from my family (my 3 sisters) I might be somewhere around half the female they are.

Neutral
There is bunch that overlaps both and is neither, around maybe 20% of me favors neither gender.

LoL dont worry about the math. I am not checking to see if it adds up to 100%, or goes over 100% because I know the nuetral overlaps some of the male and female, as well as containing parts of me purely neutral.

Actions- I act like a feminine male in public except voice.

Appearance- more androgynous now- small breasts, facial hair sometimes, long fingernails unpainted, earrings (normally pink stones), shaped eyebrows, trimmed body hair, either work slacks, shorts, or even women's pants, polo, color T-shirts, simple blouse, sometimes layered with a men's formal shirt open.

Voice and Communications- Male.

Relationship-I am the "female" in our relationship whatever that means

Issa,

If you're always going to be stealing my shirts I'm going to have to start stealing your dresses.
More so atleast.

No I'm just kidding.

Marq


Believe me though, if you hadn't threatened us about stretching all your tight clothing out, we might consider it.
Mia

Quote from: Ken/Kendra on December 22, 2006, 09:42:05 AM
Relationship-I am the "female" in our relationship whatever that means

I think that means you're "the boss"

Quote from: Marq and Mia on December 22, 2006, 10:55:47 AM
Issa,

If you're always going to be stealing my shirts I'm going to have to start stealing your dresses.
More so atleast.

No I'm just kidding.

Marq


Believe me though, if you hadn't threatened us about stretching all your tight clothing out, we might consider it.
Mia

Thanks Marq & Mia...I believe you just proved my point.

....Laurie

I look more male, at least now I do.  Artsy male, but still.  I had my days where I looked both at the same time. 

As far as the way I act and the way I am, well...lets say its both and neither at the same time.  Kind of complex, but nothing is really dominant.  My normal state of being is a balance of both and neither.  The way I act and the way I feel are both and neither.  I cannot say I feel male or female, or that I am more male or female as a person. 

I'm not going to attempt to come up with male/female percentages anymore, but I think I am mostly male. (genetically female though)

Sometimes when I look in the mirror I swear I look like a guy with girly hair, but other times, just a girl with girly hair.
I think I act quite male, though I can't explain exactly why.
I wear mostly mens clothes, and womens clothes I do wear are androgynous ones. Since September I haven't had to wear uniform to school, and I heard some people making remarks about me being a 'lezza' recently...   (I am asexual by the way)

Gender is too complicated. Better off without it!

To the world I am Male..... however if they get to know me they find out something different

My appearance is male, even when I am wearing a skirt and makeup.
My behavior is androgynous with a slight leaning towards the male side.
Inside I identify as an androgynous male.

I am for the most part comfortable with who I am and how I present myself to others.  None of my family or coworkers knows that I am a crossdresser (with the exception of my wife), but I think any of them would not hesistate to describe me as androgynous.

Inside I feel more female or other gender... Outside presentation is more male or neutral, mostly jeans and t shirts... I have long hair and sometimes get addressed with female pronouns, although when I answer in a baritone, that does create a little confusion 

zythyra

inside asexual male
mannerisms are male
looks female

QuoteGender is too complicated. Better off without it!

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