Hi Faith
very welcome here.
Woow, that was indeed a very deep stealth.
I know about the feeling of preferring being stealth but one day I was thinking, why should I be ashame of myself.
I work, I'm paying my taxes, nobody has trouble with me so, if they know I was born in the wrong gender and people are bothering about it, than it will be their problem not mine, because I didn't ask for being born that way.
I'm not the kind of person who will say to everybody, hey I'm a tgirl, but if they find out one way or another it don't bothers me.
I'll think you've reached that point also by telling your husband, isn't it?
anyway, now you can talk with people who have the same expirience.
a big hug for your courage
annette