I know it does seem like such a simple thing, a name. It doesn't usually seem like it means a lot but when you don't have one, its a big deal. I didn't really give my male name much more thought then just assuming the name I went by would be my male name, Marq. As for female name, I was going to settle on Nadia but thought it was just a little too exotic and Mia was short, simple, and beautiful.
We don't have a name to kind of collaborate us both, and in general we just use Marq unless the person knows us good enough to discern between us.
Marq and Mia