Have you practiced in the shower to see if it's leaking? With the medicine spoon, you have to get it placed exactly over your urethra (which can be tricky to find) or it won't work. Are you sure you've got that part down? If that's not the problem, have you tried using the back end of the spoon to sort of wipe? I do that with my STP (a pStyle), but I know it's quite different from the medicine spoon.