Hi,
" ... not wish to smell like an old sock" ... I started to smell something like that a few days ago, though I'm only 1 month plus post-op.
It switched to mineral oil for the last 2 dilating sessions (3x / day at present) and hello, some whitish sludge was getting 'pulled out' (stuck to the tip) withdrawing the dilators.
So... yes, mineral oil works different to KY gel.
Also, it be not too often using KY 3 - 5 times a day, every day with a bio-vj, sans condoms...! Maybe some 'professionals'? Any here to ask? Surely they'd know how to handle this situation – douching :-)
So, I will now see what happens with the mineral oil (Johnson's Bay Oil with vitamin E and Aloe - smells nice too).
BTW, KY seems slightly acidic (to match bio-vj?) can test with your tongue - yummy, ek! :-)
It's higher then ph7 I'm sure.
Early post-op [me] will produce more slough/sludge, now it mo betta get less later on, um!
Dr. Sanguan showed me a mix of drinking water (Asia) and Dettol, so that it gets just lightly milky andn at room temperature. That's his mix.
Only Dettol has one strong smell - too much like hospital for my liking. But then why not give that a try once in a week?
Axelle