Living in this world requires some patience, especially if you want to be happy

I myself am pretty comfortable not worrying about things that are designed without me in mind. Of course someone needs to do something about it some day, but when they do, I hope we are not represented with outrage, for it is simply not outrageous.
As we speak, the US government is considering redesigning all paper money for the blind. Most other countries already have their paper money in different sizes to help reflect the note's value. Obviously, this does not help the transgendered community specifically, but it does benefit my point. Progress is being made all over the place, and just because its helping someone else doesnt make it any less important. If progress is what you want to see, just look around. But dont limit your view to where you are concerned. Give it some (read: alot of) time.
I myself would be tickled pink to see "other" along with male and female on an application, but its only of symbollic importance