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Giving away my boy clothes

Started by Melody Maia, January 08, 2011, 01:20:07 PM

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VanOcc

Should post pics in an ftm board in case people like the look of them :)
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Melody Maia

Quote from: VanOcc on January 09, 2011, 08:13:24 PM
Should post pics in an ftm board in case people like the look of them :)

Doubtful. Boring as hell suburban dad stuff. Polos, dockers, big ass Wal-Mart jeans. Blech!
and i know that i'm never alone
and i know that my heart is my home
Every missing piece of me
I can find in a melody



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April Dawne

Haha I did the same! I made a new permanent Facebook page, then posted a note on my male page explaining I was trans, and referred people to the new page. A week later, I deleted the male page and haven't looked back. When I went "full time" in my daily life I went through all my clothes and divided them up for people I knew would like them, other stuff that was too worn out I threw away, still more went to Goodwill. It was an amazing feeling to purge all that boy stuff and see nothing but April's things in my living space FINALLY. It's an incredibly liberating experience to leave the pain and negativity behind, along with the things that it was associated with. =]

Congrats on such positive steps in the right direction! =]

~April Dawne~

~*Don't wanna look without seeing*~

~*Don't wanna touch without feeling*~




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Jillieann Rose

#23
QuoteThis is the end of my male identity and the beginning of my female one.
Melody, that's great.
It's got to feel scary but good too.
You go girl.
Hugs,
Jillieann
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VanOcc

Quote from: Melody on January 09, 2011, 11:27:08 PM
Doubtful. Boring as hell suburban dad stuff. Polos, dockers, big ass Wal-Mart jeans. Blech!

Dockers, you say? Haha. Was just a consideration. Best of luck with everything you do :)
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rachel_harder

I did the same thing. A couple of days after I started going to work as me I went through my whole closet.  I had bags of stuff the just had to go. I then took every thing to Denver and gave it to a goodwill there, cause I live in a really small town and I could not stand seeing somebody wearing what use to be my clothes that brought me so much pain.  I did keep some stuff though cause girls can wear Aves jerseys too haha.
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Northern Jane

Ah yes, 'boy clothes' - I remember!

I didn't have much in the end. I had moved out of my parents' home shortly before my scheduled surgery and into an apartment in a different city and that was 'transition' for me. Since my legal papers were still "M" (and it was 1974 after all), I travelled to the U.S. for surgery in boy mode. I had the nicest Hispanic nurse and we became good friends so I gave her boyfriend the last of my male clothes while I was still in hospital.

Now I am usually fairly smart but there was one thing I had overlooked - getting back into Canada - but it never dawned on me until the last moment. I had a nice flight back to Toronto flirting with a young businessman on the plane and was just high on life until we were approaching Customs & Immigration and I realized all my official papers were male and I didn't look anything even remotely male. Oh oh!  :o

Not knowing what else to do and not wanting any hassle from the Immigration people, I clung to the young man's arm as we went up to the Immigration officer. He asked the young man his citizenship, where he had been, and how long he had been gone. After the young man answered, he looked at me and I said "Same." and the officer waved us on. It worked! The officer assumed we were a couple and I was back home.

What a relief! I had visions of being hauled off to a back room and trying to explain why a young woman was travelling with male papers.


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