I've decided to transition to something or other, and it's going to be a very long drawn out
process, maybe more so than for most.  but like a lot of people I started a blog, and
usually there isn't a lot to write about - basically I lost a pound or two, I'm in school
to switch careers, I can't find a part-time job - it gets boring pretty quickly.  So I started adding
captions and things like that -very clean, funny, but not really about transitioning, and lately
I've started writing a little fantasy sequence about a wife and her husband on their
honeymoon night. No sex, but I don't think I'd really call it clean anymore either.
I'm trying to get some sense from someone else where they draw the line on
the fantasy sex stuff in a transtion blog, especially one that I may actually associate
with who I'd become someday? just general thoughts?

Seems to be up to you really. Depends upon what you want to achieve with it.

I take the position that my private life is my own. Can't see any reason to tell others about it unless they want erotica. They can and will imagine what they choose.

Most blogs are a mixture of boring reality and almost-exciting fantasy.

if you like it and it makes you feel happy and is not very stessfull go for it.

I just didn't feel comfortable with the blog
so I ended it -but thanks for your comments,
I'm just doing a blog about a play I'm writing
now.