That a gay man would want to date a pre op, pre t transboy? I understand that everyone is different, but has anyone dealt with this first hand?

well, what exactly are you getting at here? that a gay man wouldn't want to date a ftm since they are physical female? or is there a question? maybe you can clarify.

but for the record, my boyfriend/fiancee is a biomale thats bi, though leans more towards males, if that helps at all.

I just got out of a relationship with a gay guy. I'm a few months on t but still very feminine. He was okay with getting into the relationship. However, it didn't end up so well with being broken up about a week after. But he still really liked me for what I am. But the main point, he got into a relationship with me knowing I'm pre-op. I think there are some unserstanding guys out there.