It sure sounds like you are saying only those who fully surgically transition deserve to be viewed as members of the transition sex, and others are not legitimate.
It would be nice to have a bright line somewhere between 'because I said so' and 'finished with everything.' Most legal distinctions are based on at least some form of surgery that is non-reversible.
are going to the hell
They are already in the Twin Cities, major media market it is not, more like a trip to nowhere.