Welcome to Susan's, Blackswan!
Jenny, Janet, Z, and the other Mods are all especially helpful and have what seems to be an inexhaustible reserve of kindness. I am glad to meet you, and I hope that you find yourself comfortable here at Susan's. The members are each unique, supportive, and always willing to talk through the issues you might put on the table.
I look forward to reading more posts from you!
Hugs,
Jacquelyn