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Started by viv, February 02, 2011, 06:51:37 PM

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viv

Right now,i am in a difficult suitation.

It goes like this:my mom found the stash of female clothing that i hid away.
She asks me
if i am going to ditch cross-dressing or not. After some time,she agreed to give 4 months for
me to quit crossdressing.

History:my current church youth leader spoke to her regarding my cross-dressing and had her on their side,that is against crossdressing.

After that,i feel that even if i speak to mom regarding this,she won't even wait the 4 months. Having said that,i feel a bit more lighter.
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spacial

To be honest viv, it sounds like an ultimatum.

Your mom is clearly under the influence of these people. That's sad, but reality.

What do you think might happen if you ignore it?
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viv

Honestly,she feels that i am being held by crossdressing-chained to it.

It's kind of hard to wait out the 4months,but it seems to be the only
Way so far. I feel that the most drastic thing she can do,other than disowning me,is to have me sent to a mental hospital.
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spacial

viv.

It sounds like it may be best to lie low for a while. At least until you are more able to stand on your own two feet.

Not sure exactly what's happeing in 4 months. But that isn't so long to have to wait. I would hate to think incarceration in a mental hospital could be used as a means of control, in this day and age. Sadly, in some areas, and with some Drs. it remains a possibility.
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