I pay out of pocket for HRT as none of it is covered by my insurance. The actual cost of the meds is only part of the total cost. My monthly med costs are under $100 for Estradiol and Spironolactone. If you want to add Avodart or another androgen blocker (Finasteride or Propecia), the cost will go up significantly.
Also you have to factor in the blood work costs (lab cost). Every time I have my blood tested it's around $200 for the E level, K level, and Hepatic Function tests. These 3 are normally checked every few months (2-3) at the beginning, then around every 6 or so after the first year. If you have your T level checked, that's around $200 just for that single test.The cost of the actual doc office visits aren't bad, and I usually pay around $100.00 per visit.
Then you have to think about incidentals, such as hair removal, new clothes, etc. It gets really expensive, really fast. For example I've spent way more on hair removal than all my doc visits, lab work, and meds combined. Granted, I'm having full body laser removal, but I wasn't very hairy to start with either.
This process gets really expensive, really fast. Emphasis on the word expensive.