So I finally came out last night. I told her that what I feel is different than a lesbian and explained the difference between gay and trans. She told me that its not a big deal and that everyone already knows how I am. She asked me if I wanted a sex change and I said yes and that I didnt want her to look at me differently and she told me as long as my heart didnt change, that thats all that matters. I feel a million times better, I love my mom so much 🙂