Beth
I think you have misunderstood here.
I am an old friend of Cruella's from over 20 years back which is why she is coming to my house because we know each other in real life.
No one is attacking her. The other lady was merely asking to be remembered to her. Cruella in real life does give people nicknames so the lady is just quoting her old nickname so that Cruella will know who it is when I tell her about the post. That is all.
I assure you that I have Cruella's mobile number in my phone, and her address which I would not have if she was not a close friend so there is really no need for you to get upset or start saying things like "no hugs" because this is all quite friendly.