ok so i hav another question about my packer (i have asked many questions, but im new to this so)
anyway i have a 5 inch DJ's STP packer, i also have a harness and whenever i wear it in sports shorts and boxers the STP part sticks up and makes it look like i have a boner. does anyone know how to prevent this?

I have the same problem and so hardly ever wear boxers. Try the STP in tighty whities with no harness, that works great for me. Nice size bulge with no erection.

I haven't worn my STP outside of the house yet because...it looks like I have a giant boner. In fact, I've been having trouble lately with my pants stuffer as well, and I'm not sure why. I pack the same way I've always packed. So I have no useful advice. But I thought I'd send you some sympathy vibes.

haha thx 
andy: but i was having trouble using the STP without a harness becuz it moves around a lot.

Yes, I think the emphasis of "tighty whities" is on the "TIGHT."