So I found a doctor in my town that has had transgender training. I dont know exactly what that means, but I want to start T asap. Should I give her a call? What exactly would I ask if I call her? It may sound stupid, but I have anxiety and I get nervous to talk on the phone, and I want to know exactly what to ask before I call. Thanks in advanced.

You have nothing to loose, but a couple minutes, from calling. I would just call and say something like,  hi, my name is John Doe. I've heard that Dr. so and so works with transgendered patients. Is this true? It is, great! I'm a female to male transsexual and looking for a doctor to oversee my medical transition. Then just let her take over the conversation.