Yeah I just felt kinda bad, its weird I sometimes feel that if it is an older person they get a bit more  "get out of jail free" cards when it comes to me passing. the under 50 crowed seem more accepting  and i try not to force it on the over 50's. My surget grandma is going on 70 and when she tells me Im her first fave granddaughter I just go with it. I would rather her be in a happy place then in a hard confused one. as it is she thinks that I still see her every two months or so when in reality i havent seen her in about 6-7 months.