This may not be what you want to hear, but I don't bind when I need to be able to get as much air in and out of my lungs as possible. Psychologically speaking, I'm an athlete first and looks-conscious second. I wear a good "masher" sports bra (like the Frog Bra from Title 9 Sports) as long as it lets my ribcage expand fully. That's a must for both lifting and cardio. Of course, I have been blessed with AA's, so my experience is very different from yours - what I look at in the mirror and groan at as "too obvious" would probably be your dream chest. :-/