As i'm an avid sci-fi fan the one of the women i've always wanted to be is Elizibeth the star child from V (the 80's series not the rubbish new one)
When I saw her go into the cocoon as an 8yr old child come out as a beautiful young woman i've been extremely jealous of her character, as a child/teenager I would go to bed hoping that before I awoke i'd go into a cocoon state & come out as a young woman.
Now that i'm older I would like to be like Commander Ivanova from Babylon 5 as she is smart, strong & very feminine, she manages to thrive in a masculine role without losing her femininity, I think I also identify with her as she hides a secret of being a telepath & like her i've been hiding a secret for my whole life, until now