Ok, I am just posting this because, I think it's a bit of a sensitive topic for me. But I think it's something that other people don't even think about. Maybe someone here has similar feelings! Oh and it's also kind of superficial and just very surface based, so there's not a lot of actual depth.. I don't think there is anyway! anyway, I ramble far too much!

Do any of my sisters ever notice very feminine men (who I'm presuming to be nontransgendered, yes fairly positive ) that would pass as women very well? There are a few guys that go to my college and actually their bodies are pretty masculine but their faces are beautiful and feminine and with very little effort they could possibly pass if they wanted to! and the "jealousy" arises when I realize that all of these "straight" men are blessed with the appearance that I would love and they don't even realize it, nor do they have any desire to use it! haha! In fact I wonder if it's something that bothers them, that would be an interesting discussion, if they weren't afraid of me


okay, see it was really superficial and whiny of me! But thanks for reading it was just a weird thought I had and it bugs me sometimes. Does anyone else have a similar view of or think about things like this?

hugs!!

-Piper

Your question appears to be more towards getting an answer from other trans folk but here is an answer from a straight guy.
I remember back in the stone age (60's) I grew up with quite a few guys that looked pretty girly.
Back then trans issues weren't well known in the midwest where we lived. Don't know about elsewhere.
They seemed not to notice and nobody else seemed to really care. Every once in a while a remark would be made like ( wouldn't he would make a beautiful girl ) generally from an older woman.
Sometimes (rarely) other guys might make a remark. Not often though.
If they were offended or embarrassed it never showed.
But back then who knows. Only God knows their heart.
Maybe inside they were flattered and wanted to be a girl.
I don't know. I won't judge them.
Just a straight opinion.

Yeah, I've definitely run across cisguys (gay and straight) who made me more than a little jealous of their femme looks. Of course, that's also the kind of guy I like so maybe I just notice them more often because I'm always looking for them. I've heard a few say that they wanted to look "straighter" or more butch. Of course, I think they're fine the way they are but a lot of people aren't content with their appearance, I suppose...