I have both my ears pierced and diamond studs in both holes. i know plenty of guys, (in their 20s) around here who also have both ears pierced. i think i pass just as well with my earrings than without.

Earrings are for both men and women these days finally! However, unless you're a pirate, guys still can't get away with thick hoop earrings.
I get sick of looking at all those guys with cheap CZ studs though, if you're going to wear jewlery, wear something real or nothing at all!

glad to know so many guys have them. i guess its just the typical female two in each ear that all the girls had at age 12 that bother me so much.

its not so much that i have holes from ear piercings that bothers me its more that thats one more part of my "girl" life that i cant really get rid of