Ive read in seavral places about seavral iron age finds which had female grave goods and burial with male skeletons in both kent - uk and sweden, but not been able to find any more info, I know the ones from then (iron age) also have some litriture to go with the finds from the time (tacitus - germania, can't remember the exact bit but it was at the back somewhere) and some from a bit later on in varied sorces from the viking age, if any one knows a link or info about the finds id love to read them, esp the ones in Kent.