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What makes you want to be female?

Started by Cody Jensen, April 19, 2011, 04:56:02 PM

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Catherine

Quote from: kyril on April 23, 2011, 02:04:16 AM
I'm partial to Human 7.

I prefer Linux..... why would you want software that crashes once a week ???
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Carlita

Quote from: Maddie Secutura on April 24, 2011, 01:44:40 AM
I've always found it helpful to assert the mechanism behind the claim.  As an empiricist a claim must be backed up with some form of proof.  To simply claim to be female (when one has a male body) would fall into absurdity were there not a distinct medical cause.  That is why I bring up the brain wiring.  It's not that I find it more desirable to be female. I have no choice but to identify as such because my brain is hardwired to function that way. It's not something I can help and if I had my choice, I would have had a male brain to go with a male body.  But since I can't change my brain, I have to change the body to simply be more comfortable with myself.  It may not be the most eloquent way of putting it, but I find it a better answer than simply, "Just because."

Serious, non-rhetorical question: how do you know? Is there reliable research suggesting that pre-transition transsexuals have the "brain wiring" of the opposite sex? Come to that, assuming that your brain (or anyone else's) had the physical size of a normal male brain, would it be possible to find any empirical, observable evidence that it was female?

If these questions can be answered 'yes', cool. I'd love to see the research, because then maybe I could get some kind of test to answer the uncertainty that has plagued me all my life.

But if there is no such research aren't you just creating an essentially ideological position: ie. that the transsexual brain is oppositely-wired, just because we say it is.

I'm not sure how that would be helpful ... Personally, I'm stuck with the belief that I cannot personally say, 'I am female,' when all the physical evidence says that I am currently male.

That's why, to me, the question, 'Why do you want to be female?' makes perfect sense. Because I'm not now and have never been female ... but I have always wanted to be so.
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Carlita

Thanks for that, Sarah ... I'll check it out!
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kyril

Quote from: Catherine on April 25, 2011, 07:17:13 AM
I prefer Linux..... why would you want software that crashes once a week ???
You know, I really want to like Linux...but I've tried 5 or 6 different distros, and always come down to the same problem: it's horrifyingly slow and crashes all the time. Seriously. My Windows works beautifully, haven't had an issue since I upgraded to 7...my Ubuntu install crashes daily. Sometimes two or three times daily.


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Kalista

I can't really explain why I want to be a female. To me, that would be like trying to explain why we exist. I could sit here and given you several examples, but at the end of the day, I just want to be female, because that is the way I am. I know that isn't a lot of insight, but it is what it is.

Yay for a vague and unusual response!
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Koney

To me it's probably like for some others..

I don't ''want'' to be female per se. But these feelings are there.. the feeling that tells me I'm not what I appear I am on the outside. It's a major drag if you ask me.
I don't want to be female, but I just am very much female. So much so that it causes this gender dysphoria.
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