Here is a saying i always keep in my wallet.  Maybe it will be a word of strength to you.  It's by ee cummings
"To be nobody but yourself, In a world which is doing it's best
night and day
to make you, everybody else,
Means to fight the hardest battle, which any human being can fight,
And, never stop fighting."

I've had one on my desk for over 15 years now, it's by Harrison Ford.

"We all have big changes in our lives that are more or less a second chance."