Hi, I'm a crossdresser but I'm not interested in wearing anything other than underwear and nightgowns. I spend a lot of my free time dressing especially since separating from my wife of thirteen years. (marriage broke down due to irreconcilable differences. She discovered my clothes very early on but could never get used to it) Does anyone else have this predelection? My wardrobe is VERY extensive and is definitely connected to my autoeroticism.

Currently in my house its just underwear or stockings... If my parents are gone then I raid her closet.

You probably have a fetish for womens undergarments

-Brianna

If you enjoy doing something which isn't affecting anyone else, I can't really see any problem with it at all.

I'd just like to say to you Ruby Rose, welcome to our community.

Hi Ruby,

Yes, I have a very similar situation and have a not so understanding wife. So, I mainly wear panties and thigh highs under my jean. Good luck and welcome to Susan's.

Hugs,

Jean

Sometimes, sometime not

It all began with Mom's stockings, but eventually my horizon expanded; underwear, a dress, then skirts and tops, finally accessories like shoes, bags and scarves, and of course a drawer full of makeup. But always, I never felt completely dressed without hosiery, even in the nasty heat of a Chicago summer.

Underwear is always fun to wear. Some people have affinities to different fabrics and cuts. Personally, I like microfiber and cotton.  They breathe better than satin. Briefs and high cuts work well with me. I might wear a bikini bottom once in a great while as well as thongs. Find what works for you.

I don't stick with just underwear, but it is the essential basic that I started with. I'm personally fond of satin because of how it feels and looks but cotton is more comfortable, especially during the summer. I also have far more bra's than I should have, partly because of how much I love them but mostly because a bunch of them were acquired while I was zeroing in on my size. While I love skirts and tops as well I started with just the undies and wear them more often since I can wear them under my street clothes when the feeling compels me to.

Hi Ruby Rose

Welcome to Susan's.
Do read the ToS and post away.

I think everyone at Susan's will agree that what works for you is fine. There is a massive spectrum of sexuality in male and female gendered people and there is no reason to ashamed of what part of the spectrum you are in. I would suggest that you are a ->-bleeped-<- who enjoys female lingerie, you probably don't wish to change sex and enjoy being male gendered.  There is absolutely nothing wrong and nothing to be ashamed of in that. It is part of being normal. Enjoy and post.

Hugs

Cindy

Amy, I'm having the same crisis.. bra buying like mad to find the right one... Maybe getting a proffesional fit is cheaper... lol 
Doesnt help that i have a chicken (concave) chestbone...
The first pumps I bought hurt to hell, but then I bought some booties from kmart thinking if too small I can return them, and that worked, they are divine..
Yes I started as a stocking 'guy' but as I explore It develops.. Tonight I bought a lacy halter top and got given a denim mini and (yeah whatever) necklace.. But accessorising seems to be adding to the 'kink'..
One path this li'l one will be exploring more...

I..

Quote from: Iskandra on May 26, 2011, 06:04:59 AM
Amy, I'm having the same crisis.. bra buying like mad to find the right one... Maybe getting a proffesional fit is cheaper... lol 
Doesnt help that i have a chicken (concave) chestbone...

My problem was actually the opposite as I have a bigger ribcage, but I used a website or two and a measuring tape and have found a comfortable size range. I just have a number of older bra's that don't fit but I can toss 'em, I have plenty that fit just fine. Another hard part was finding some place to get a bra in a 42A... but I managed it and even though I had to order it from overseas it fits, looks and feels great. I also have a number of nice bra's that fit me when I'm using my breast forms. 42D is much easier to find 

Whenever the subject comes up I look at the person who is making note of it and ask them:

Wow, is your life totally blessed and under control so that you can afford to spend time thinking about what other people are wearing for underwear, or are you just kinda clueless about what's really going on around here and what's really important?" 

Then I add that they should stick around, if my style preferences in panties is bothering them, just wait!  I've got a bunch more stuff going on that is much, much more disturbing.

But.. but Tekla..
Sometimes the more disturbing is easier to deal with... 
Realitytv and celeb mags have blinded 'us'...
skocking is normal, hiding something as plain as girly knickers isn't...

I....

Right now no underpants only bra, slip and keyhole pullover dress.  I've spent two weeks with construction workers in the house and this is the first time I've been comfortable in a month and I have been getting things done around the house.

Last week in the afternoon my son drove me in his pickup truck to get my van which was being serviced.  Going down the interstate I stretched out my arm along the back of the seat and my right boob started bouncing up and down.  I'm thinking to myself why didn't I slip a bra on under my shirt?  I knew the answer was that I was afraid the straps would show through the material and I would be outed.

My wife knows about the bras, however, not the slips and dresses and in another three days I will be confined back to all male dress as she will be home 24/7.

It most definitely started with wearing underwear and lingerie for me.  As time went on I continued to want to look more feminine.  Today I wear a bra and panties on a daily basis under my male clothes.  When I have the time to dress up I have everything a woman needs to to look pretty.  I own more dresses than my wife.  If all you like to wear is underwear....well there's nothing wrong with that.  Maybe some time you might try a little perfume or makeup when you slip into your nightie.  You may find it adds a little more to the experience.  Have fun with it!

I have worn ladies underwear for at 35 years, never worn anything else, bras easy enough my proper size is 36C and my favourite bra type is balconette