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Started by Ashley_C, May 15, 2011, 12:32:11 PM

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Ashley_C

OK, so we all enter therapy with a time table.

How close were you able to stick with your personal table from the minute you stepped into your GT's office for the first time to the time you got your first dose of hormones?

Was it longer than you expected or less?
We must move forward... not backwards, not to the side, not forwards, but always whirling, whirling, whirling towards freedom.

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Tamaki

I gave up therapy time tables a long time ago. My therapist gave me my hormone letter when I felt ready and asked for it. I want to go full time right now but I know I'm not ready yet and I working with my therapist so that I am ready. In hindsight it happened quicker than I thought it would.

If you're ready for hormones right now your therapist just needs time to get to know you and makes sure something else isn't going on. For my last therapist that was as few as three visits.
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Ashley_C

Quote from: Hannah_Irene on May 15, 2011, 12:59:27 PM
I gave up therapy time tables a long time ago. My therapist gave me my hormone letter when I felt ready and asked for it. I want to go full time right now but I know I'm not ready yet and I working with my therapist so that I am ready. In hindsight it happened quicker than I thought it would.

If you're ready for hormones right now your therapist just needs time to get to know you and makes sure something else isn't going on. For my last therapist that was as few as three visits.

OK.

I have ideas in my head of when I want to begin HRT. That was as close as we got in my 1st visit.
We must move forward... not backwards, not to the side, not forwards, but always whirling, whirling, whirling towards freedom.

My mindless babbling are my own opinions and nothing more.
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JungianZoe

A lot less, but I got lucky... My GT said that while the SoC provided a good guideline, they simply don't apply to everyone.  She emailed me a pre-intake life history questionnaire so that we wouldn't have to waste any time on tiny details, and I wound up emailing her back 8 single-spaced pages (12 pt., Times New Roman, 1" margins... you know, APA format if you don't count my single-spacing).  :laugh:  I always said brevity isn't my gig.

She also knew I'd seen a counselor at my university's counseling center for three months at the start of last year, specifically for trans-related issues.  Though the counselor at the school was simply a Master's candidate in the counseling program, she was phenomenal (and free!) and I got to work out my early transition issues with her, long before going on HRT or seeing my GT for the first time.

After my first session with the GT, I went in for our second appointment and told her that I'd had enough of the screaming voice in my head telling me it was time to start.  I was a month from my 33rd birthday and I desperately feared increased masculinization (though I hadn't changed at all since 20, save a few wrinkles and white hair).  Also, I knew I had three months of intense concentration ahead of me as I had to work, take a class, prepare my thesis proposal, run the numbers, write the thesis, and defend it, all while researching and applying to graduate programs.  She smiled at me and said it sounded like it was time for a letter. :)  I nodded in vigorous and enthusiastic agreement.

The endo I went to is usually booked one to two months in advance, but thanks to a fortunate cancellation, I was on hormones three weeks later.  Though the hormones she prescribed those first three months didn't work (she even told me not to count them because of how bad my numbers were), the placebo effect of taking those pills gave my mind the calm I needed to do what I needed to do that semester.  And though I didn't start a functioning HRT regimen until December 22, I still have the satisfaction of knowing that I began taking hormones on 9/21/2010, 3 days before my 33rd birthday.

Now my actual birthday, 9/24/1977, contains numbers all divisible by 3.  That means if you add up the numbers, the sum is divisible by 3.  9/21/2010 also contains numbers all divisible by 3, so the same rule applies.  Likewise, if you add up all six numbers (9+9+21+24+1977+2010) that sum is also divisible by 3.  Being that I was 3 days from my 33rd birthday, add 3 and 33 to the mix and you STILL get a number divisible by 3.  I've noticed, all my life, that most everything having to do with dates or numbers is intricately tied to the number 3, and I don't even try.  It follows me.

Perhaps the universe is telling me that my timetable was planned all along...  :laugh:
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Ashley_C

Quote from: JungianZoe on May 15, 2011, 01:35:58 PM
The endo I went to is usually booked one to two months in advance, but thanks to a fortunate cancellation, I was on hormones three weeks later.  Though the hormones she prescribed those first three months didn't work (she even told me not to count them because of how bad my numbers were), the placebo effect of taking those pills gave my mind the calm I needed to do what I needed to do that semester.  And though I didn't start a functioning HRT regimen until December 22, I still have the satisfaction of knowing that I began taking hormones on 9/21/2010, 3 days before my 33rd birthday.

Now my actual birthday, 9/24/1977, contains numbers all divisible by 3.  That means if you add up the numbers, the sum is divisible by 3.  9/21/2010 also contains numbers all divisible by 3, so the same rule applies.  Likewise, if you add up all six numbers (9+9+21+24+1977+2010) that sum is also divisible by 3.  Being that I was 3 days from my 33rd birthday, add 3 and 33 to the mix and you STILL get a number divisible by 3.  I've noticed, all my life, that most everything having to do with dates or numbers is intricately tied to the number 3, and I don't even try.  It follows me.

Perhaps the universe is telling me that my timetable was planned all along...  :laugh:

I bet your drink Rolling Rock, too. Ever a member of the Masons?

The rule of 3 is a big deal, just ask my writing partner.

Anyways.... my GT gave me a questionnaire to fill out that they normally give to SRS candidates. Although I told her I have no plans for that step, she was curious how I'd respond to the questions. I haven't even looked at it yet, though.

My plan as of now is to begin at the end of September, which is also when my bday is. (Go Libras!)
We must move forward... not backwards, not to the side, not forwards, but always whirling, whirling, whirling towards freedom.

My mindless babbling are my own opinions and nothing more.
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JungianZoe

No Rolling Rock (beer... YECH!  :eusa_sick: ) and no Masonry either.  But I am Pagan and there are lots of 3's in many Pagan paths!  And as much as I don't really like math, I do like numbers for some strange reason.

I'd be curious to see what's on that SRS questionnaire, as I didn't even know there was such thing.

And you're right... Libras rule! ;D
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Ashley_C

Quote from: JungianZoe on May 15, 2011, 02:17:24 PM
I'd be curious to see what's on that SRS questionnaire, as I didn't even know there was such thing.

And you're right... Libras rule! ;D

I haven't looked at it yet. It's in a folder in my dresser. I wanted to take a little time before I looked at. I moved very fast once I made the decision to transition to this point. Really, since about Easter.

I just want to settle in a bit more. All I know is that it deals a lot with gender roles.
We must move forward... not backwards, not to the side, not forwards, but always whirling, whirling, whirling towards freedom.

My mindless babbling are my own opinions and nothing more.
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