Quote from: Squirrel698 on May 13, 2011, 12:05:34 PM
Seconded.  Sweetie are you for real because this is over the top madness

I have to quote them because just wow.... I just can't say anything here without being cruel. =/

QuoteI have to quote them because just wow.... I just can't say anything here without being cruel. =/

This.

Quote from: Korlee on May 17, 2011, 01:50:53 AM
I have to quote them because just wow.... I just can't say anything here without being cruel. =/

In risk of coming across as harsh, I will say something because it sounds like I am not alone on thinking this.

There is asking for help and there is wanting people to just feel bad for you. It seems like you have ignored all of our suggestions and keep posting things that make you come across as helpless.

There is no way of knowing you are pregnant in like, 4 days. Hence why you can't even take the pregnancy test for another 2 weeks.

I understand being stuck in a situation that is hard to get out of but if you're not even going to listen or respond to anything people say when they're trying to help then why reach out? People have listened and posted good advice, even with links and all you can say is an extension of your situation while disregarding everyone.

Sorry, but regardless I also hope you learn to respect yourself otherwise other people are going to continue to not respect you back.

Well said JayUnit, I 100% agree. I would have said something myself, but I come across as brutally heavy handed at the best of times. 

Yeah having sympathy doesn't solve anything. If you don't like the way you are being treated you have to take action. Loose the victim mentality, stop being everyones door mat. No one is going to respect you if you don't respect yourself.

Quote from: Kentrie on May 17, 2011, 01:01:16 AM
I was supposed to start my period last night and I thought I did but I'm barely bleeding...I'm just spotting and I had sex the first time with him 4 days ago, I read that that's a pregnancy symptom but some people tell me that having sex can make your period do weird stuff like that. My boyfriend told me if I didn't start my period in two days then he would buy me a pregnancy test but I wouldn't be able to take the test until the first week of June. The last time we had sex was 3 days ago so the morning after pill wouldn't work either.

Maybe you didn't read this guy's post, but I thought it was great, so I'll just repeat it.

Quote from: kyril on May 13, 2011, 09:07:52 AM
(1) You can buy the morning after pill over the counter. If it's been less than 72 hours, it's not too late. If you can manage to find time to have sex every day without your mother's permission, you can find time to go to the drugstore or Planned Parenthood. No excuses. Go. The pill isn't an abortion, it's pregnancy prevention, there's nothing to feel guilty about, just suck it up and go do it. Now.

(2) Get an STD test in the next 2 weeks, and another in about 6 weeks. If a person will have unprotected sex with you outside of a very long-term committed relationship, they've probably done it with other people, and no, I don't give a flying f if he told you he was a virgin/had been tested, he's a lying sack of crap if he did.

(3) Dump the motherf'ing ->-bleeped-<-. He's pressured you into sex, shown absolutely no concern for your feelings, and worst of all knowingly endangered your health. He isn't even worth being friends with. Lose him.

(4) Date guys if you want. Date girls if you want. But get some self-respect and stop doing things you don't want to do. And if you can't stand up for yourself within a relationship, then don't date anyone at all for a while until you grow up and learn to take care of yourself.

Just to add to what JohnAlex said, in fact, the 72-hour cutoff isn't an absolute deadline. The effectiveness of the pill tapers off continuously over a period of about a week. But the longer you wait, the less effective it is.

Bet that pill is hard to find in most of West Virginia.

http://www.wvfree.org/docs/pharmSurvey.pdf

QuoteThe total number of pharmacies that participated was 431 resulting in a 78% response rate. Over two-thirds (71%) said they currently stock Plan B.

Of the 125 pharmacies that do NOT stock Plan B, almost half (49%) said they were able to get plan B within 24 hours. Also, one quarter of the pharmacies that do not carry Plan B said they provided referrals to a nearby pharmacy where Plan B is available.

Here's a link to get you started finding somewhere in WV that can help:
http://www.wvfree.org/pregnancy-emergency.html

Not a bad link to have anyway, since it has resources for family planning centers that can do pregnancy tests and other reproductive health services.

Thanks everyone.

So what's your game plan?

Guys, I think he gets the picture: he's going to have to make some changes in his life. But remember that a little tough love can go a long way.

Oh, and please, folks, lay off certain four-letter words. Most of them do not get filtered out, so mods have to step in and change them one by one. Variations on the "s" word and the "f" word, mainly. The ToS do not specify what is or is not allowed, but #11 does say, "Foul or obscene language, and/or subjects belongs on the street. Please do not bring it on to my site, my chat or my forums."