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If you were offered surgery "tomorrow" for free would you do it?

Started by Anatta, May 21, 2011, 08:38:18 PM

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Would you have genital surgery "tomorrow" if it was offered to you for free?

Yes-without a doubt
118 (65.6%)
Yes-but there no doubt would be some reservations
30 (16.7%)
No- I would need to get other important things sorted first
26 (14.4%)
Other
6 (3.3%)

Total Members Voted: 167

Anatta

Kia Ora all,

::) A simple hypothetical question[wishful thinking perhaps for some], but it does require some serious food for thought!

Would you be both mentally and physically ready to have surgery if it was offered to you "tomorrow" for free? And it could "only' be performed "tomorrow" and not any other time for free...

Metta Zenda :)
"The most essential method which includes all other methods is beholding the mind. The mind is the root from which all things grow. If you can understand the mind, everything else is included !"   :icon_yes:
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Sarah B

Although this question is now only academic for me now.  I would answer with an emphatic YES and of course there is no hesitation on my part in answering this question.  As far as I can 'sense' within myself.  I still would have had the operation years before I finally realised I was female and I would not have thought twice about it even then.

Kind regards
Sarah B
Be who you want to be.
Sarah's Story
Feb 1989 Living my life as Sarah.
Feb 1989 Legally changed my name.
Mar 1989 Started hormones.
May 1990 Three surgery letters.
Feb 1991 Surgery.
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Mika

If I lived on a desert island, yeah. But as I live in a social context and am not out to most people, it would be irresponsible of me. Murrh, I regret not hypothetically having my surgery paid for lol
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Just Shelly

YES! YES! YES! I'd at least have tonight to think about it. :D

My luck though, is those people got the day the world ends mixed up, and its tomorrow instead. :o

Shelly

Kia Ora Zenda, I just posted one of these poll thingys minutes ago, check it out!
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Jillieann Rose

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Lisbeth

"Anyone who attempts to play the 'real transsexual' card should be summarily dismissed, as they are merely engaging in name calling rather than serious debate."
--Julia Serano

http://juliaserano.blogspot.com/2011/09/transsexual-versus-transgender.html
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Megan Joanne

YES! Only thing I'd hesitate on is who is doing it, what their credentials are, I certainly wouldn't want somebody doing my surgery that would mutilate me. But if we're speaking legit, really good surgeon, but of coarse I would, I'm ready now! But I'd assume there would be a catch, most of the time there is when involving anything free, again, that'd be another thing to give me a moment's pause, find out what they want from me, see if I am up for whatever that may be (a documentary, or be someone's slave for live, what?) but its just out of someone's generosity, then sure, lets do it!
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jamie lee

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Cen

I'd go for some free facial surgery.  Anything else, no.  I don't know how I feel about the risks/cost of GRS vs. the benefits.  Right now I don't think I'd ever have it done even if I transition.
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Janet_Girl

YES without a doubt.  In a heartbeat.  In a New York Second. 
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V M

The main things to remember in life are Love, Kindness, Understanding and Respect - Always make forward progress

Superficial fanny kissing friends are a dime a dozen, a TRUE FRIEND however is PRICELESS


- V M
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Sephirah

Reluctantly I would say no. Purely because I believe nothing really comes for free, and I don't like feeling indebted to people, no matter how honorable their intentions are. When that time comes, it will be a culmination of my own efforts. Would I be mentally and physically ready for it, however... to that I say yes, and have been for years. It's the 'free' part that goes against my principles.
Natura nihil frustra facit.

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cynthialee

Yes. In a heartbeat.
I have dismissed any thought of getting SRS. It just seems so daunting to raise the capitol for a surgery when there are so many other things Sevan and I need our money for.

My best hope is they change things and allow for transition surgeries on my insurance. But with current attitudes out there I think there is a better chance of pigs flying.
So it is said that if you know your enemies and know yourself, you can win a hundred battles without a single loss.
If you only know yourself, but not your opponent, you may win or may lose.
If you know neither yourself nor your enemy, you will always endanger yourself.
Sun Tsu 'The art of War'
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Anatta

Quote from: Just Shelly on May 21, 2011, 09:44:04 PM
YES! YES! YES! I'd at least have tonight to think about it. :D

My luck though, is those people got the day the world ends mixed up, and its tomorrow instead. :o

Shelly

Kia Ora Zenda, I just posted one of these poll thingys minutes ago, check it out!

Kia Ora Shelly,

::) I've been looking for it but can't seem to find it anywhere...Could you cut and paste a link?

Metta Zenda
"The most essential method which includes all other methods is beholding the mind. The mind is the root from which all things grow. If you can understand the mind, everything else is included !"   :icon_yes:
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Layn

first i want to say yes, but then i'd start worrying that this might not be the best surgeon, and i should research and why the heck is it even free and then i'd do some more procrastinating then think i do really want that and by then i would have lost the opportunity anyway
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Miniar

I "could" have had a free (covered by insurance) meta this summer.
I turned it down, and so I say No to this quiz.

I'm not ready.
There's little they can do for me and after looking at the "step by step" meta method I'm not ready to have that done because I'm not comfortable with a couple of the steps there of.
Maybe later, depending on something changing.



"Everyone who has ever built anywhere a new heaven first found the power thereto in his own hell" - Nietzsche
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RachaelAnn22

Yes, because it would probably be my only chance to have the surgery.
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Elijah3291

I would be packing my bags in a heart beat and calling my family to tell them I would be back in 7-8 days and I need someone to watch the cat.  My heart would be beating so hard the whole plane trip, its already going a little faster just thinking about the impossible of this.  lol.
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RabbitsOfTheWorldUnite

It may at first seem irresponsible of me but think "how does anyone get experience if no one is willing to use an unexperienced surgeon?"













Was that enough time to think?
Well, my answer is a resounding "HECK YES, GIVE IT TO ME NOW!" with the only hesistation being that I may opt out if the selected surgeon has repeatedly messed up his past surgeries.
However, I would have no hesitation at all with being a 'test subject' for a brand new surgeon so he can get his feet wet. :-)
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