This flesh thingy that grows on both sides a bit above your hips, how to have more of them? I have a friend post-op and she told me it grew automatically after she operated. Is that true? Do you know a technique how to have more of them?

Love handles are not cute! Haha. im hoping, now that im on hrt, mine will go away!

Don't be sad girl. What you look for are hips! Not love-handles FGS. They'd totally obsure the girly waist you can muster.
Any help? :-)
Axelle

Quote from: Axelle on May 26, 2011, 01:23:14 AM
Don't be sad girl. What you look for are hips! Not love-handles FGS. They'd totally obsure the girly waist you can muster.
Any help? :-)
Axelle

This comment is thin-ist! 

Thankfully some men (and indeed women) like their lovers with a bit more meat on them! Otherwise I'd be very lonely...

Thanks all for replying. Well all women have this and I wanna have it too cos I'm so skinny and my body has no form. I want that thingy and hips too. Is it true they grow after doing SRS?

Quote from: Sad Girl on May 26, 2011, 01:52:13 AM
Thanks all for replying. Well all women have this and I wanna have it too cos I'm so skinny and my body has no form. I want that thingy and hips too. Is it true they grow after doing SRS?

If you eat enough they will grow anytime... lol. 

For most of us the problem is not getting them - its preventing cute little love handles becoming vast ugly rolls of fat! 

There's a tricky balance to be found where you eat enough but also get enough exercise so that the handles have muscle support. That's what makes the difference between "on-demand" love handles and "always-on" love handles . We need fat to grow boobs and hips. Food maketh fat, muscle supporteth it. Or something.

OOhh Sad Girl.

I wish i had your problem, you could have my handles.
So, honestly, you have a very nice figure, no need to change something about that.

Hugs
Annette

I had love handles all my life. 5'5 and 130 lbs and I still have them. I am pre-HRT with a big pelvis though.

I don't think you want love handles. Love handles look bad. I always got teased about them as a kid at the pool or wherever. You just want an hourglass figure. That is a combination of bone structure + % bodyfat. So the element you can control is to put on a little weight, if that is what you want.

I may be mistaken, but is this not more of a masculine feature..?

Everyone's prone to them, it's just the term perhaps gets used more for men than for women - who get "muffin tops" instead .

Quote from: Sad Girl on May 26, 2011, 01:52:13 AM
Thanks all for replying. Well all women have this and I wanna have it too cos I'm so skinny and my body has no form. I want that thingy and hips too. Is it true they grow after doing SRS?

Do not concur that "all women" have them...and of those I have dated through the years who DID have them, almost all complained about them. 

Getting rid of mine has been a struggle and is one of the thing I am trying to work on at a local health club...if that fails, then I will pony up for the lipo to get rid of them.  They ARE NOT at all attractive...

Oh, and I will say that mine became more pronounced not so much because I had surgery all those years ago but because I became way to sedentary after ceasing a few athletic activities that had worked to keep me in better shape.

Actually, if I could get some fat to locate between my love handles and my hip bone beneath them, I would have legitimate hips.  A bit more in my backside wouldn't hurt my feelings, either. 

Quote from: Sad Girl on May 26, 2011, 01:52:13 AM
Thanks all for replying. Well all women have this and I wanna have it too cos I'm so skinny and my body has no form. I want that thingy and hips too. Is it true they grow after doing SRS?

Love handles aren't a particularly unusual place for men to store fat as well.  I had them pretty bad when I was heavier.  If anything, I'd think larger love handles would make the hips look thinner and more masculine.