I've been lurking on here since yesterday and it seems really nice and the people seem just wonderful, so I decided to register.

I don't really know what to write here. Mm..

So I'm a young guy. Or well, at least I was born one. Ever since I can remember I've been secretly wishing I was a girl and been fascinated by women's clothes, make up, etc. But I've never been particularly uncomfortable in my body. Well, until recently that is. So it just always seemed so unreal to me that I could actually be a female. Therefor I've always considered myself to be a male.

But lately as I've been getting older and started thinking about things, the future and so on, I don't really see myself as a male at all. And it just feels really depressing to me to think that I'd be living the rest of my life as a male. I'm still pretty confused though. I'm not really sure if what I'm feeling is more that I WANT to be a girl than that I actually FEEL LIKE one.

Anyway.. I'm looking forward to being a part of this forum.

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Janet

Hi and welcome to Susans! I sound like a broken record, but this is the place to figure things out. You'll be fine, hugs, Tracey

Hi PaRaDeaD

Welcome to the forum.
With a bit of luck, you're feeling at home soon, at least I hope so.
You 've come to the right place, coz we know how you're feeling.
We all had or have the same problem, that's what makes talk about it easier, you don't have to explain while we all know what you mean.
I hope you'll have a very good time here.

hugs
Annette

hi para yeaa i have the same problem. it wasnt til real recent it came and hit me. iv known for a long time but all of a sudden bam! well i know what u mean about the clothes i see this really cute purple hoody i want real badly lol but my mom would ask.. if i where a girl id be broke!

Hi PaRaDeaD

Welcome to Susan's. I am glad you desided to join us here. I look forward to getting to know you better though more of your posts.

   Hugs, Roxy Rose

Thanks for your replies! I'm sure I'll like it here a lot and maybe find some answers, too.