I was on craigslist, and I found the perfect guy (to the point where I disregard his finances; and that's huge for me). I just sent him an email...

the problem is, he wants a passable transsexual woman who is at least 21. So I told him I'm transitioning and if he doesn't find the right person I'll be ready for him when I am 21.

But I want him, he's over 6 ft tall, green-eyed, and hot. And he's 25 years old right now. Like seriously want him... I'm just going to wait for his response though. I never wanted a guy this badly before.

How do you know he's the perfect guy if you just started messaging him now?

He is hot.

I thought transsexual women can never get young/and attractive men.

Craig's List ads are not known for their perfect  honesty.  In reality, he may be a bald, potbellied, cigar smoking 40-year-old troll. If you meet, be sure it's in a very public place.

Robyn

Quote from: Wild Flower on May 31, 2011, 12:45:46 PM
He is hot.

I thought transsexual women can never get young/and attractive men.

So very shallow.

concur with the assessment of CL...it has long been sketchy, but even moreso in the last six or seven years. 

also need to concur with Nygeel's thought on the matter...talk about seeking superficiality in a relationship.

Quote from: Robyn on May 31, 2011, 12:50:02 PM
Craig's List ads are not known for their perfect  honesty.  In reality, he may be a bald, potbellied, cigar smoking 40-year-old troll. If you meet, be sure it's in a very public place.

Robyn

this.  craigslist is full of scams.  be careful. 

Go and have some fun Wild Flower. But remember, even with the best guy in the world, wear protection.

Quote from: Nygeel on May 31, 2011, 12:50:58 PM
So very shallow.

Actually it's a different approach for me. I actually don't care about looks in men, except their wallet sizes. I thought I was being less shallow than usual.

First I have to echo everyone else be very careful of meeting someone from CL.  I would hate to have something bad happen to you.

Sorry, but you bring new meaning to the word shallow.  The good news is a lot of guys with big bucks like to find shallow women (trans or otherwise).  They use their money as power and control over them.  I think if you're going to be shallow....Go for the looks honey.

Quote from: Wild Flower on May 31, 2011, 06:00:09 PM
Actually it's a different approach for me. I actually don't care about looks in men, except their wallet sizes. I thought I was being less shallow than usual.

The scary thing is, you were! 

Well I heard his response, he said if he doesn't find someone, and I am passable in 2 yrs he will remember me.

So you can keep you're 5'5 short fat guys, and I'll keep my over 6' young athletic guy who wants a ltr with a transsexual woman.

2 years?, god that's like beyond the scope of his brain it will be 'wild flower who's that?' in two hours haha.

Quote from: JulieC. on May 31, 2011, 06:55:13 PM
First I have to echo everyone else be very careful of meeting someone from CL.  I would hate to have something bad happen to you.

Sorry, but you bring new meaning to the word shallow.  The good news is a lot of guys with big bucks like to find shallow women (trans or otherwise).  They use their money as power and control over them.  I think if you're going to be shallow....Go for the looks honey.

Where I am there's a serial killer that meets his victims on craigslist. Good times.

Just because he looks hot, doesn't mean he is, delicious looking on the outside, risk of poison on the inside. Oh well, if looks and/or money are your thing, go for it.

Well I am not perfect in the inside either... or am I?

Hey, if you feel perfectly safe with the idea of meeting this man, go for it, maybe we're all wrong in our notes of caution or being paranoid, he could be the one, might be a sweetheart, if so then he most certainly would be the perfect guy, don't want to miss out on that.

Well he sounded like a sweet guy on the craigslist add, but I am not what he wants right now....

It takes a lot for a man to want to be with a transsexual woman when he could get a GG woman. I don't think he is a ->-bleeped-<- because he wants a relationship.

Quote from: Wild Flower on May 31, 2011, 07:15:40 PM
So you can keep you're 5'5 short fat guys, and I'll keep my over 6' young athletic guy who wants a ltr with a transsexual woman.

I'll tell you what...you can keep the guys...period. 

The only thing on CL I ever found useful was the manner that we used it in Austin as a way to keep up with current events in the lesbian community...every other city in which I have looked, it was NEVER about long-term relationships.  And most of the peeps who posted ads were not real to begin with...

craigslist is like the brother of 4chan.. which is the ass end of the internet. lols ..But good luck!