Hi, Suzy Ann! Welcome to Susan's!!
In my experience, a cross dresser who wants to be a girl usually, eventually, realizes that she is transsexual rather than a cross dresser. So if she's really female inside and she dresses as women do in our culture, is she really cross dressing?
I'm pleased you found us and decided to join. I'd like to invite you to go to the Introductions section and introduce yourself to us so we can get to know you a little better. I wrote mine on Dec 29, 2005 (or there abouts) if you want to read mine. It's not a requirement and it's customary.
Please make sure you read and follow our terms of service and explore the whole site. The forums here are wonderful and the Chat, links and WIKI are great resources that have helped me very much. I think you'll enjoy them too.
again, WELCOME ! !

helen